Correct
Your Top 10 Biggest Dog Training Mistakes!
Even "Trainers" Are Guilty of Making These Mistakes
and Believe Some of These Myths.
From the Book, "Hidden Secrets
Behind Dog Training"
Just by correcting these ten mistakes and misconceptions, you’ll
automatically improve your chances of success to a level matching
the top 1% of truly effective dog owners in the world. You may
find this hard to believe, but even experienced trainers
make some of these mistakes. Yes, sadly, I am referring to those
who are paid to train people's dogs on a regular basis.
If you truly want to cut down on your training time
and see a REAL difference in your dog’s training response,
busting these myths and correcting these very common mistakes
will be your stepping stone to amazing success!
Myth #1:
Dogs Were Born to
Please and Serve Humans
FACT: It is actually
the poor “owners” who are pleasing and spoiling their
dogs left and right. Think about this for a moment. If this myth
were really true, you wouldn't be reading this right now. Sorry.
But you rarely run into pleasing dogs.
Here’s How I'm Going to Prove
My Point:
Say your dog starts barking excessively, mouthing
you, or jumping up or on your visitors. Does she stop with a simple
“NO,” or do you mostly keep telling her to stop over
and over again? Hmm... she’s not pleasing you there, is
she? Or how about when your dog keeps on charging at your cat,
another dog, or maybe at one of your guests? You yell out commands
and even try to “physically” control or restrain him.
Does he obey you then? I’m guessing the answer is still
NO.
Here’s the undeniable fact: Your dog clearly sees that
you are frustrated. It is obvious from your yelling, your demeanor
and from desperately trying to control your dog. He clearly gets
it that you are frustrated from him acting unruly, yet he STILL
flat out ignores you. A-ha! Then again, you can’t call him
a “pleaser,” can you?
Family, friends and maybe some of your neighbors can tell that
your dog loves you dearly, but let’s not confuse that with
“respect” or “compliance.” If all dogs
are truly pleasers, then why in the world we have so many dog
training books, dog trainers, dog behaviorists and even doggie
shrinks out there? Think again, if this myth were really true,
don’t you think that everybody would have a perfect dog
with no bad manners whatsoever? No matter what the circumstances
and no matter how tempting the distraction, everybody’s
dogs would listen in a heartbeat and everybody would own a super-trained
pooch.
You’d hear dog owners shouting across the street, “Hello
there, how’s Roscoe doing?” One would laugh and respond,
“He’s pleasing me all right! And how’s little
Daisy coming along?” You’d hear, “Man, we never
even trained that sucker. But she listens to us everywhere and
every time. It’s unbelievable. As a matter of fact, we sometimes
call her Lassie. Hey, just today she put my ten-year-old to shame
on Twitter.”
Myth #2:
Training Ruins a
Dog's Personality and Breaks His Spirit
FACT: A sure sign of an abusive
method is violence! When you catch yourself or a trainer yelling,
hitting or hanging your poor dog off his feet in order to make
him submit or obey commands, you are definitely being harsh and
abusive.
Let’s face it, not everybody in your household might be
on the same page when it comes to training or disciplining your
dog. You may try to enforce some kind of rules and boundaries,
but it is just a matter of time when you'll be facing the wrath
of the one who is usually spoiling the dog rotten. "Leave
him alone and let him be happy, for crying out loud" is what
most likely the spoiler of the family will tell you. Ironically,
those who usually pamper the dog to this extreme, always try to
defend and justify their unacceptable behavior. And what’s
sad is, when it comes right down to it, the dog won’t even
respect or obey “them.” So who's happy now?
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Being abusive is what breaks
a dog’s spirit--not enforcing rules and boundaries.
When you catch your dog making a mistake, you need to correct
it, NOT punish it.
There is a big difference!
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Certain training tools such as the Choke Collar, Pinch Collar,
Electronic Collar, a Head Halter or even a clicker can also be
misused in the wrong hands. I once noticed a dog that was afraid
of a clicker. The owner kept on clicking it next to the dog's
ear and the poor dog kept jumping back and cowering. That’s
why it makes more sense to rely on your "voice" to mark
a command or a good behavior instead of the sound of click-click.
So unless you are mute or have three hands, one to hold the clicker,
one to hold the treats, and another to hold the leash, there is
no need for a nonsense clicking device.
Besides, humans have successfully been able to teach dogs master
different commands with their voice for hundreds of years now.
Click, click. BOOOM. Now take that! Clicker trainers!
Myth #3:
You Shouldn't
Bother Training a Dog if He is Too Young or Too Old!
FACT: No dog is ever too young
or too old to learn right from wrong, what is acceptable and what
is not. So it doesn’t really matter if your dog is a stubborn
old grouch or a naughty puppy.
By being diverse, you’ll increase your chance of success
whether you are dealing with an 8-week-old puppy or an 18-year-old
grouch. Bottom line, any dog can learn to follow your rules and
obey your commands regardless of age, size, history or temperament.
Yes, even your dog!
Besides, can you really put up with any more of your dog’s
habits? So when you really think about it, because of the age
factor, you let your dog pee and poop everywhere, jump up on your
guests, lunge, snap, bark nonstop, run around like a maniac or
knock down the kids just because he is only a few weeks or even
a few years old. Sounds like insanity, doesn’t it?
Bottom line, there are no excuses or age limit for ANY of your
dog’s unacceptable behavior! Based on my personal experience
in dealing with thousands of dogs, I promise you that there is
no bad habit that cannot be reduced and even eliminated no matter
how old or young a dog may be.
Myth #4:
Train Your Dog with
Treats and He Will Eventually Listen
Even Without Goodies Forever and Ever After
FACT: There are
only three reasons that justify using treats with your dog:
1. To gain your dog’s trust and confidence, especially
if he’s shy, timid or aggressive.
2. To teach your dog some cute tricks. Treats and tricks always
go hand in hand.
3. To prepare yourself and your dog for obedience competitions.
You may want to read those three reasons again.
Be honest. Do you really care about ANY of them? The majority
of dog owners don’t fall into any of these categories.
This is a fact.
It is very unlikely that you want to teach your dog bunch of
tricks or enroll him for obedience competitions. In fact, what
you mostly care about is an obedient, well-behaved and a happy
dog. Not a soldier, not a ninja and definitely not an acrobat
dog that jumps hoops and does a bunch of back flips with four
Frisbees in its mouth. Unless you got your dog from a shelter,
where some have been neglected or worse, abused by someone,
it is very unlikely that your dog is terrified of you or others
in your household.
And when you really think about it, your dog should sit, stay
or lie down because you said so, and not because he’s
going to get a crispy bacon strip. I'm sure most of you were
raised this way and turned out just fine. And guess what? It
shouldn’t be any different when it comes to our dogs.
Here's a Thought-Provoking Question:
Would you still work for a company if they decided to stop paying
you? Since your dog has no use for money, you read somewhere
or were told by a trainer to “pay” your dog with
yummy treats. But once you start to wean your dog off those
treats, it is not much different than once your boss stops paying
you. All of a sudden you might find your dog going on strike
barking with a sign around its neck that reads, “NO Treats
- NO Listening, NO Treats - NO Listening!”
I am convinced more than ever that using treats to train a
dog is the biggest scam in dog training history. In fact, it
shouldn’t even be called “training.” It is
bribery. Plain and simple. Folks, they are trying to make sense
out of nonsense and when your dog doesn’t respond to your
commands; their recommendation is for you to try a different
kind of treat. Come on. How many more treats would it take for
your dog to eventually listen?
Besides, would you rather
rely on Love, Praise, Leadership, and a “Diverse Method”
or carry a bunch of hot dogs, bacon strips, beef jerky or dried
liver? You have a choice!
We all know that it doesn’t take
much talent OR skill to constantly bribe a dog with treats and
then call it dog training. Again, this is just bribery! We all
know that bribery rarely lasts. Because like most bribes, it
lacks bond, love, trust, loyalty and respect. When those great
qualities are missing in ANY canine or human relationship, that's
when some shift gear toward bribery instead.
I find it very hard to believe if you haven’t even heard
of or known of someone else who was able to train their dog
WITHOUT the use of treats. Do yourself a favor and think back
a bit. A family member, neighbor, relative, co-worker, or maybe
that someone was “you.” Now, whether you did it
with the help of a trainer or all on your own, you were able
to train a previous dog without the constant use of food as
a reward.
That's right. Just by relying on your voice, praise, and technique,
you were able to get real and long-term results. I am also willing
to bet that dog was one of the best behaved and well-trained
dogs that you’ve ever owned. Best of all, you didn’t
even have to bribe, beat or slam him on his back to make him
mind.
Folks, this is not rocket science. You ultimately want your
training to stick! But right now, the only sticky things are
your fingers from all those cheese and hot dogs that you bribe
your dog with. Or, even worse, you are in some fantasy land
hoping that your dog will eventually obey you flawlessly anywhere,
anytime, without any cookies just because you snapped your fingers
or because you said please. Now, that’s a classic: "Sit
please." Yeah. As if saying “please” even works
every time with people. Be that nice and polite with those who
truly deserve and have earned your love and respect. Never ever
say "please" to your dog. Okay?! Please.
Your overall demeanor or as Cesar would say, your ENERGY, right
away turns into a “wussy energy" as soon as the word
“please” comes out of your mouth. ( I’ve dedicated
an entire chapter on pros and cons of using treats in your training,
since I know there are hundreds of books and trainers who have
misled millions of poor dog owners like yourself all over the
world.)
Now if you still insist on giving treats to your dog, you'll
be far more effective if you do so at the very “end”
of your training session and NOT before each command. That is
just being rational, practical AND natural. Those three words
are very powerful and definitely worth mentioning again: Rational,
Practical and Natural. I didn’t say, Steak, Pepperoni
and Sausage.
Myth #5:
Dog Parks Are the Best Place to Get Your
Dog Socialized
FACT: In dog parks
is where our canine friends learn to bully or get bullied by
other dogs. And if that wasn’t bad enough, your dog could
easily pickup many bad habits from the “other” dogs
which are hard to break even for the most experienced trainers.
What bad habits exactly you ask? I’m referring to what
unruly dogs do: barking excessively, humping, tackling one another
or playing too roughly. Your dog may soon learn to guard his
food, toys or a bone from you. Some dogs go as far marking inappropriately
inside your friends or relatives’ homes, and perhaps even
your home. Going to dog parks is a lot like facing a “mystery
opponent.” You just don’t know whose dog is nice,
trained, healthy, vaccinated or even spayed/neutered. Sometimes
forget about the dogs. You will have a good time dealing with
people that aren’t that good with their reasoning skills
when it comes to their doggie.
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Even if your poor dog is friendly
with other dogs, there will be that one odd dog that will pick
on yours and attack it for no reason. Yes, just because he feels
like it.
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I’ve witnessed very nasty dog fights where the owner of
the dog who started the fight snuck out of the dog park leaving
a bloody and injured dog behind. Sadly, this results in that dog
losing total trust in its owner and becoming fearful or even aggressive
toward certain breeds, or worse, toward ALL dogs for a very long
time or for the rest of its life.
Here’s a great way to look at it. Haven’t you met
someone who didn’t like you, or even picked on you for no
reason? Think of that relative, neighbor or co-worker. It is not
much different when it comes to our canines’ mindset in
dog parks. Many of the dogs will keep on pushing your dog’s
buttons picking on him over and over again, until he can’t
or won’t take it anymore and snap. And that’s when
you’d see his Cujo side, a side of him that you’ve
never seen or didn’t think he had in him. Now, can you really
blame your dog here? (This question depends on who you ask. But
Yes and NO is the correct answer.)
You know your dog better than anyone else. So if you clearly
see that he or she isn’t yet comfortable with other dogs
or might be terrified of them, dragging it to a dog park is a
big mistake. Take dogs sniffing one another. In the dog world,
when a dog sniffs another dog’s rear or genitals, that’s
very similar to our handshake. But the truth is, some of these
dogs aren’t ready for a handshake or maybe they just don’t
want to. Is that wrong? Haven’t you met someone who didn’t
want to shake your hand and left you hanging?
So here's a typical scenario with scared dogs: Dogs that are
shy and timid will hide behind their owners, under benches, or
run away from other dogs. In fact, if you could read their minds,
you’d hear, “Please save me! All these dogs are trying
to take a chunk out of me!” And the dogs that are doing
the chasing are thinking to themselves, “What is wrong with
this dog? What does he have to hide anyway? Why won’t he
let us sniff him down there? Just stand still so we all can sniff
your booty for crying out loud, and it will be all over soon.”
Plus, by sniffing each other down there, dogs gather information
about one another. Just like you can tell a lot about someone’s
handshake, dogs can do so by sniffing each other in their danger
zone. You may find this shocking, but they can tell if the other
dog is altered, dominant, sick or even what they had for lunch
or breakfast.
As you can see, taking your pooch to dog parks is a gamble where
the odds play strongly against you. Some of you might challenge
me by saying, “But Kevin, he loves the dog park. He has
a blast every time I take him there.” Well, that’s
like saying, “My kids love pizza. They have a blast every
time the door bell rings. We eat pizza for breakfast, lunch, dinner
and even snacks.” If that’s the case, then invite
me too. I really don’t think one more Teletubby would hurt.
Kids also have a blast playing video games constantly, talking
on the phone, texting and surfing the Internet 24/7, but that
doesn't mean it is right or healthy for them.
You, as a responsible adult and smart parent should know better.
And when you don’t, you’ll definitely pay the consequences
in the long haul. Taking your pooch to dog parks isn't any different.
Myth #6:
Joining a 6-8 Week Group Class is Just As Good As
ANY Dog Training Program Out There
FACT: If you carefully
study your dog’s behavior, you’ll notice that the
root cause of his bad habits all originated from your living room,
your backyard and within your own neighborhood.
Bad habits such as: Barking nonstop, jumping up, play-biting,
destructiveness, aggression or marking inappropriately are just
to name a few. Let’s not forget your dog stealing food off
counters, bolting out the door or pulling you on the leash. And
how can we leave out issues like terrorizing your poor cat, fighting
with your other dog or behaving improperly around your visitors.
You’ll improve your chances of success dramatically when
you work with an expert in private. Think about it. How in the
world can ANY trainer no matter how qualified he or she may be,
help you with these challenging issues in a class full of ten
more untrained dogs not to mention novice owners?
Here is another problem with group classes: they are not part
of your typical daily routine! Ask yourself, when was the last
time you ran into ten owners who were all desperately trying to
make their dogs obey fancy commands? Never! You most likely run
into one person walking or jogging a dog, waiting at the vet's
office or when passing through the aisle in a pet store. Now these
are what you call real-life scenarios! Don’t forget about
the dogs that try to antagonize yours by barking excessively as
you walk near their fence or even lunge viciously toward you and
your dog.
The idea is to prepare yourself and your dog for those with poor
skills or even worse, a poor judgment. Some of these lovely folks
let their unruly dog walk totally loose as you face them with
“your” out-of-control dog. Now there is a recipe for
disaster. Hopefully you have your dog on a leash. If not, the
movie, Dumb and Dumber comes to mind.
You see, whether someone is walking, jogging, or being pulled
by their dog, you HAVE TO BE able to keep your pooch under your
control. Even when you are approached by a loose or stray dog,
your dog must obey your commands without losing its cool. Is that
level of control over your dog even possible? You bet it is.
What’s worse about group classes is whether it is your
dog behaving badly or others’, you’ll soon be disappointed
to find that these classes will NOT make you “street-smart.”
That’s right. You need to be prepared for the real world.
The majority of owners who have tried a six or eight week group
class noticed something very interesting: their dogs obeyed marvelously
in that class, but acted like complete idiot at home. Or, the
dog somewhat listened at home, but was never able to pay attention
around other dogs or people. That’s what $120 gets you these
days.
Picture this. You have your dog’s graduation diploma hanging
on the wall. You went out of your way to find this cute frame
that has little bones and paws around the frame. And right next
to it, your poor guest is getting humped by your dog and you can’t
get him to stop for the life of you. That’s Rover for you.
He aced the PetSmart class with flying colors. You got your diploma
alright, yet you still can’t stop his jumping and humping
on your kids and visitors for the life of you. How embarrassing!
The sad truth is, trainers who teach only
group classes, no matter how brilliant they may be and no matter
how hard they try to be helpful, cannot do much with different
owners who all have their own separate agendas.
And if you really think about it, even teaching your dog the
obedience factor such as Sit, Stay, Down, Heel, or Come to You
When Called are best taught in your home or in private. This is
because you are eliminating all minor and major distractions that
may stall your training progress.
Sadly, the majority of dog owners will never get their hands
on such information and most group class trainers will never admit
to it. And why should they? Now, if you are smart or curious enough
to figure this out on your own, great. If not, then they’ll
ask you to drag your dog to their class for six or eight weeks
in a row and tell you to keep walking in circles while you give
your dog treats just for being alive.
Ask anybody who have tried these classes and the majority will
admit that they are a very long, slow and nonproductive process.
What's even worse is they rarely allow more than one family member
to participate. Let's face it, most of you can't get everyone
in your family to commit for eight weeks straight. So what you’ll
end up with is a dog that somewhat listens to one person and ignores
or even challenges everyone else in your household.
Poor owners have no choice but to multitask in these classes.
They will desperately try NOT to take their eyes off the trainer
while constantly jerking the leash and telling their dog to sit...sit...sit!
All of this happening while other dogs are charging, barking,
whining, growling or dying to play with one another.
Look, there is nothing wrong with enrolling your dog in a local
obedience class. In fact, you’ll find it beneficial, but
it is wise to wait until you have actually laid out a strong foundation
from your home first.
As a matter of fact, all successful trainers follow four stages
of training. They are: the learning stage, the correction stage,
the distraction-proofing stage and finally, the maintenance stage.
The “maintenance” aspect of the training is just as
important as the first three.
Let me give you an example that most of us can relate to. We
all know that losing a few pounds can be hard--but keeping them
off is even more challenging. Staying consistent in the fourth
stage of the training is like keeping those extra pounds off.
The maintenance aspect is when many dog owners get lazy and fall
off the wagon. It is unfortunate, since this is the stage that
will give you the pleasure of having an obedient and balanced
dog for years to come.
Now, if you decide to ignore the importance of these four elements
and still enroll your dog in a group class, this is what I predict
when I look at my crystal ball: You will be teaching your dog
new commands, correcting him left and right for making mistakes,
and you’ll get frustrated when he can’t fully ignore
the new location, new dogs, new people, new smells, different
noises or other unexpected distractions. Is this fair or productive
to either of you?
As far as getting your dog socialized or getting him to respond
around different dogs, this too needs to happen in front of one
or two dogs before joining a group of unruly dogs and frustrated
owners. I found that obedience classes are the best place for
“polishing” up on your training. I’m sure you’ll
agree that polishing and learning are two different things.
Myth #7:
It’s Best to Have Your Dog Look at You or
Your Cool Hand Signal Prior Giving a Command
FACT: Your dog is
perfectly capable of responding to your voice without making eye
contact or paying attention to your fancy hand signals.
Here’s a question for you: Would you rather
have your dog “listen” to you or “look”
at you? Then do yourself and your dog a favor and don’t
drag your training routines by saying, watch me… watch me…
watch me before each command. That’s just nagging and it
stops working very fast! Watch what? When you really think about
what you are trying to accomplish, you are not even asking the
poor dog to look at you. It is all about the invisible treat that
you are holding, so it actually only gives the "illusion"
of your dog looking at you.
The majority of dog schools don't tell you this, but you only
need your dog’s eyes glued to you if you want to prepare
him for obedience trials. I know most of you only care for a well-mannered
and obedient pet and not a super-trained dog that wins you a bunch
of titles, ribbons and trophies.
Myth #8:
Don’t
Ever Correct Your Dog By Saying "NO" to it.
Instead, Make Some Kind of Strange Noises
FACT: Your dog
must stop dead in his tracks the second he hears the word, “NO!”
It shouldn’t even matter whether it comes from you or someone
else. NO means NO!
Maybe you have been a bit successful in getting
your dog’s attention with strange terms such as: “Eh,”
“Eh-eh,” or my favorite of all--“Baaaah,”
(Doesn’t that one remind you of something you’d hear
from a Klingon in some Star Trek movie?) Folks, your friends,
relatives, kids and neighbors will laugh at you and have a hard
time remembering those sounds. So stop the insanity!
Really think about this for a second. When you are out in public
with your dog and you catch him misbehaving, can you honestly
picture yourself yelling out, “Baaah, baaaah,” just
because some trainer told you or you read it in some book? Even
worse, in emergency situations you won’t even remember those
funny noises. But saying or even yelling out "NO," comes
naturally to all of us! Then let's not sugarcoat things. "NO"
simply means – "NO" and your dog should stop whatever
he's doing the second he hears it from anyone, any place and at
any time.
Obviously Cesar Millan is able to control any dog with, “Shhht”
and it works for him. But are you The Dog Whisperer? I didn’t
think so! So leave that to Mr. Millan. He can pull it off and
you can’t. Although I have a great respect for all Dog Whisperers
out there, whispering is just not my thing. Hey, people don’t
pay me to whisper my secrets to them. They want me to be loud
and clear.
Myth #9:
All Dogs
Can Be Trained with the Same Training Tool
FACT: There isn't
that one “magic tool" that works on every dog, every-single-time.
That’s the reality of it! Some dogs are just too smart,
too strong, too big, too stubborn, too dominant, too sensitive,
too fast or even too unpredictable for their poor owners.
So which training tools do top trainers swear by?
The answer to this question may surprise some of you, but they
too rely on whatever that works best for them and their dogs.
So why should it be any different with you? Be smart about this.
If the tool you are using on walks stops working around hard-to-ignore
or hard-to-avoid distractions--try a different one. Your main
objective should be getting results! Then why use something that
doesn’t even seem to faze your dog when you REALLY need
it to? That’s I've been preaching all along, my dog loving
friend. Diversity!
Take a step back and carefully observe whether
your “current” training tool is just as effective
around dogs, your guests, your cat, the mailman or kids running
around. If not, don't make a fool out of yourself by using it
over and over again.
The majority of dog trainers are close-minded and
won’t allow you to experiment with different training tools.
This will frustrate you since you’ll know and see for a
fact what works on one dog or your previous dogs, doesn't necessarily
mean it will get you the same results with your “current”
dog. This again proves that all dogs are different.
Bottom line, use what works and most importantly, use that tool
correctly and humanely. And trust me, people will judge you and
all you can do is, smile and tell them, "I appreciate your
concern. But you just don't know much about my dog, lady. When
he is distracted or focused on someone or something, this is the
only tool that seems to get his attention. Plain and simple!"
Be smart! Be Diverse!
Myth #10:
Don't Bother Sending Your
Dog Away to Be Trained, it Will Only Result in Your Dog Obeying
the "Trainer" and NOT You
FACT: All the best-trained dogs
in the world have been trained by an expert first. If you doubt
this, just think of the dogs for the blind, dogs for the handicapped,
drug sniffing dogs, hunting, and even attack trained dogs.
Doggie Boot Camp can be a wise choice especially when you travel
out of town, have a busy schedule, are a mother-to-be, or might
be in the process of moving or remodeling your home. Perhaps you
fall under one of those owners who prefer the actual “expert”
do the hardest part for you, so all you do is the maintenance
aspect of the training. And there is absolutely nothing wrong
with that
.
It’s no secret that “you” need to be involved
in your dog’s training regardless. It's just that some people
prefer to come in the picture from the beginning to the end and
some prefer AFTER the dog is completely trained. I personally
have found the second option to be a much smoother and less stressful
process. This is because your dog goes to rehab and gets trained
or even re-trained. Then comes the harder part--training YOU!
Now, for those trainers who are against Send Away Dog Training
or believe it is not as effective, I can almost guarantee you
that none of them have ever tried to train someone’s dog
without the owner’s day-to-day involvement. In fact, if
you ask any of these skeptical trainers if they ever owned a kennel,
worked with someone who operates a kennel or a doggie daycare,
their response would very likely be, "NO. I have not and
don’t need to.”
Frustrated owners who try our drop off training can’t deny
the huge improvement they’ll notice upon picking up their
dogs. You'll see the eyebrow-raising difference right before your
eyes! What's best about it is half of the battle and frustration
is out of the way. And unlike the dogs, I've never had to ask
any of the owners to spend two weeks with me so I can train them.
At least not yet.
As for the trainers who insist boarding and training a dog is
NOT going to work. As I mentioned earlier, is obviously due to
the fact that none of them ever gave this approach an honest chance.
Think of sushi. If you notice, the ones who hate sushi, are usually
those who've never tried it and probably never will. I've tried
Sushi and loved it. I also have trained many dogs in my boot camp
without the owners’ initial involvement.
And I must admit, I too in my earlier years didn’t believe
in send away dog training. But guess what? I had to try it and
the level of success I achieved just blew me away. Folks, it’s
just common sense. You train or rehabilitate the dog first and
then the owner can’t deny that the dog was hopeless or un-trainable.
Teaching and educating the owner on how to get the SAME level
of response from their dog is the next step. After all, it is
NOT my dog and that was the main reason they that hired me in
the first place--so their dog listen to THEM and not just respond
marvelously to me.
Unlike a typical dog school who insist that you try their group
classes or private lessons, with us, you have all options on the
table for you. And frankly, the board and train program also depends
on your dog, your schedule, your travel plans, your circumstances,
your expectations and, let’s not leave out--your budget.
NOTE: These ten dog training myths have been
presented to you in the most condensed way possible. As you read
the rest of the book, you'll notice how I confirm what I’m
trying to convey with even more compelling facts. But don’t
take my word for it. I encourage you to research and study all
ten of these myths and mistakes for yourself. Observe some dog
training classes, visit different dog parks, talk to lots of dog
owners who have actually tried different methods and different
programs.
I’m confident the results you’ll get by following
the “Diverse Method” will be so convincing, that you’ll
agree other philosophies hardly measure up to it. After all, by
being diverse, you arm yourself with the best of ALL methods.
And this versatility is what will make you flawless. Written by International Trainer and Dog
Psychologist, Kevin "The Dog Prodigy"
Taken from Kevin's Book,
"Hidden Secrets Behind Dog Training"
The Best
& The Worst Trainers Under the Microscope
Dream Trainer or Your Worst Nightmare?
Discover the Strengths & Weaknesses of ANY Trainer in a Heart
Beat!
From the Book "Hidden Secrets Behind Dog Training."
There are thousands of dog trainers out there with “average
knowledge,” who charge you an “average price,”
and definitely fall under the “average trainer” category.
Most of you don’t know any better or don’t really
care about these facts. And sadly, will settle for an average
trainer and of course, end up with “average results”
or even worse—NO RESULTS!
So who emerges from the pack? There is an amazing energy and
spirit about these individuals which are hard to ignore. It isn’t
all about the dogs for them. In fact, they know their secret to
ultimate success goes far beyond that.
This chapter opens your eyes to the traits and qualities of the
smartest and the most successful experts in the industry. Folks,
I am not talking about any trainer here. I am referring to "dream
trainers." Because of their knowledge, skill and persona,
they are not only making it--but making it big with style and
integrity. Again, I’m referring to the best and brightest.
Now, I don’t want you to blame their high level of success
for being at the right place at the right time or happened to
meet the “right person.” And to some degree, they
probably were in the right place, but before you know it, they
took over and kept on paddling on their own.
Don't let this discourage you, these trainers only make up the
top one percent of the dog experts in the business.
In my years of rubbing elbows with so many experts, I’ve
known the ones who enjoy fine wine and caviar with the rich and
famous. I’ve known those who only taught group classes and
didn’t want to go to the next level and, in some cases,
were actually struggling. I've met those who settled for just
being a part-timer and trained dogs for fun. And I’ve also
met trainers who were very successful, but weren’t happy.
These folks—no matter how much money and success came their
way— it was never enough. They simply wanted all the business.
To them, the glass was ALWAYS half empty. You could reassure them
by saying, “Don’t worry. There are enough dogs for
all of us and you can’t win them all, nor do you really
want to.” They’d hear it, but it wouldn’t register.
Some of these trainers bombard the search engines with numerous
websites. As if they want to eat the whole pizza on their own.
Everybody knows that eating an entire pizza by yourself is definitely
not healthy for you! When you give, you shall receive. That’s
how great the universe works.
The ones who stand out from the pack are truly unique in every
aspect. These individuals love what they do. This is why it is
so hard to get a hold of them. As Dr. Phil would say, "They
don't have a free hand to throw a rock." They are often overbooked
and have a waiting list. Teaching, training, conducting seminars,
and traveling to promote their services or their book are just
to name a few. Sometimes they are busy training “others”
to follow their passion or to carry on the torch.
Bottom line, their mission is important to them! I guess what
I'm trying to say is that dog experts aren't any different from
the rest of us. You decide under which category I fall.
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I learned a long time ago that the best way to get better at anything
is to put your ego aside and learn from someone who has true superior
skills and an impressive record to back it up.
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Often this comes down to hiring the best expert
money can buy. I also have learned a lot from the worst-of-the-worst.
How you ask? By analyzing their mistakes and failures, I learn
what NOT to do!
After years of studying those who are considered to be the "real
deal," I've noticed that these individuals are all operating
in a totally different class and mentality. No wonder their success
rate was so hard to ignore. When put to the test, most of them
possess these ten qualities about them:
1. They care about you, your dog and their reputation.
2. Their training method is backed by logic and common sense.
3. They have an uncanny ability to pay attention to details.
4. They'll make sure you don't end up with a "half-trained"
dog.
5. They know how to get your dog completely off-leash trained.
6. Your dog being too young or too old doesn't matter to them.
7. They gladly accept even hard-to-train and bully breeds.
8. Their method might be firm but it is also kind.
9. They let you experiment with different training tools.
10. They never ever give up and follow the "Diverse Method".
1. They Care about You, Your Dog and Their Reputation
You see, it's not always about how much you know or how great
you are, but it is also about how much you "care." This
simply means these trainers are truly nice individuals. The old
saying, "Nice guys finish last" isn't their motto. Studies
have shown that nice people live longer and happier lives, are
surrounded by positive people, attract more business and, in my
opinion, rarely are sued OR killed.
Some of them also have a great sense of humor. Sorry, only some.
I believe that people look much better when they’re smiling,
which is why I don’t always let small things get to me.
I am known to make you if not laugh, at least smile here and there.
Why many dog trainers are so rude, mean, disrespectful and act
like Mr/Mrs know-it-all is beyond me.
We can tell a lot about someone the minute we talk to them. That
is, if you are even able to able to reach any trainer on the phone
or in person. Which brings up the question of caring, once again.
........................................................................................................ Those who care, not only get back to you, but often try
to reach you immediately.
They know that you may need help with your dog right away!
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Pick up your phone book or e-mail some trainers from their web
sites. You'll soon be dissapointed that most will leave you hanging
and make you grow gray waiting for a response. Once you are finally
able to get a live person on the phone, see if you get a good
vibe from them. If not, why even bother?
You see, no matter how good they may be, you don’t want
to be stuck with a jerk, psycho, weirdo, nut job, and the list
goes on and on. When it comes to intuition, women are much more
perceptive than men. They often say, "It has to feel right."
Or "I didn't get a good vibe from that person." If the
trainer makes you uncomfortable by being too pushy, rude or condescending,
remember, you could be stuck with this individual in your home,
in private, or in some group class for eight weeks or even longer.
Whether on the phone or in person, great trainers usually answer
your tough questions with patience and respect. They don't mind
or feel offended when you challenge their knowledge or expertise.
These folks don't just deliver, they outdo all the others by
caring about their image and their reputation. All this automatically
makes them stand out from their competitors. They know going that
extra mile will get them that extra result.
After all, how many times have you hired a painter, a contractor,
an attorney, or even a babysitter who disappointed you with their
poor ethics? They did a poor job or didn't even care. As some
say, "They just go with the flow and rarely accept constructive
criticism from ANYONE." In a nutshell, you just don't see
that "wow factor" or that "pizzazz" in their
work. Noooooooo, I didn't say pizza. So don’t reach for
that Parmesan cheese or crushed peppers now.
Nine out of ten of my clients have already tried PetSmart, Petco,
local training class or worked with a private trainer and failed
miserably. In almost every case, the trainer was another amateur
who trained on the side. Now, for some who did hire a professional,
they just weren’t professional. Let me explain: They were
definitely a "pro," but more of a pro at doing a lousy
job or a pro at ripping them off! Let’s face it, there
are millions of people out there who do something for a living
but don't have their heart and soul in it. There is no passion.
They just can't wait until they get out of their workplace. Why
do you think the rate of heart attacks are at its highest on Mondays?
How fast someone gets back to you, or if they even bother to
get back to you at all, is just one of the things to consider
when looking for a reputable expert. Let me give you an example:
A lot of group class trainers won’t return your call if
they don't have a class starting soon. The same applies if their
class happens to be full or they won’t be holding any during
the winter. What's worse is they don’t even bother to mention
this on their voicemail.
I don't think you are a psychic to know why nobody got back to
you. Was it because their class was full or because they don't
train that particular breed of dog? Maybe it’s because the
trainer is out of town, sick, wants to take a break or is not
accepting any more clients at the moment. Hey, I'm sure you'd
agree that the polite and professional thing to do is to mention
this on their voicemail. Even better, they could have an actual
person get back to you by phone or e-mail to let you know what's
really going on. But sadly, this is rarely the case.
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Once you actually talk to a topnotch expert, you can't help
but noticehow honest, caring, genuine and
professional they come across.
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Whether it is in person, on the phone, or by e-mail, the ones
who truly stand out never sound pushy or desperate. I always say,
"Not everyone recognizes, appreciates, or even deserves the
very best."
What I found fascinating about the successful ones was not only
that they were incredible trainers, but also great counselors.
Yes, you read it correctly. Counselors!
Don’t get offended when I say this, but the majority of
dog owners get nervous, tense and sometimes even too harsh with
their dogs. Some can’t or won’t follow our directions.
Some are too loud or get abusive with the poor dog. And some plain
refuse to get firm, especially when their dog happens to challenges
your authority. Now, that is when people skills come in handy.
Trust me, being able to handle and deal with people is where the
real challenge lies.
If you have worked with a few trainers in the past, I’m
betting that most never even bothered to point out your GOOD qualities.
Let's face it, it's not that difficult to jump on someone's flaws!
This naturally makes you feel tense, less motivated, and in some
cases, even a bit shy around the trainer. Many dog schools focus
most of their efforts on nit-picking, correcting and scolding
you in front of your entire family or, even worse, in front of
complete strangers in a group setting. How can this be fun or
productive? What makes a good trainer brilliant is his or her
ability to praise your good habits while pointing out your mistakes
in a courteous yet constructive manner.
Unfortunately, the majority of dog trainers lack people skills
and are famous for treating the "owners" like dogs.
I had to learn this the hard way.
The ones who make a positive impact among pet owners are the
ones who realize there is a difference between insulting someone
and giving them a critique. The truth is, there are hundreds of
great "trainers" out there, but only a few great "instructors"!
As I mentioned earlier, the challenge lies in teaching and showing
the people. Dogs are easy.
Here's an example: I had a trainer who worked for me that told
one of our clients if he kept on yanking his dog's leash for no
reason, that she'd jerk HIS NECK to show him how it felt. Now,
she obviously cared about the dog, but couldn't care less about
getting her point across without losing her cool or offending
the dog's owner. There are right and wrong ways to stand up for
a dog, and the way she handled it was definitely not nice OR professional.
2. Their Training Method Is Backed by Common Sense
As a writer I hate saying this, but please don't believe everything
you read—especially things that just don't make any sense.
If the method doesn’t seem logical to you or sound a bit
foolish, how do you suppose your poor dog is going to make any
sense out of it? Some trainers come up with absurd and irrational
ways and try to brainwash you as if they were logical.
Let me give you a few examples: Many cookie trainers tell you
to never say your dog’s name when you catch him misbehaving
or making a mistake. Is that logical? Hmm... so let's assume you
have two dogs and one of them starts humping little Johnny. You
are supposed to yell out NO HUMPING. Don’t you think that
would make both of your dogs jump? Wouldn’t that confuse
the one that wasn't even misbehaving? Then please stop the nonsense.
You'd be far more effective to mention the name of the dog which
was making the mistake, either before or after you reprimand it.
Hey, totally leaving your dog’s name out would work fine
if it was just the two of you. But if you have more than one dog,
I’m sure you’ll agree that it doesn’t make much
sense to completely LEAVE OUT the dog’s name and hope he'll
catch on. In fact, when you do this, you won't seem as bright
to your dogs.
Here's a different scenario: Say you catch one of your dogs chewing
on your favorite shoes while the other one is dead asleep. Are
you supposed to just scream bloody murder--"LEAVE IT"--and
make both of them jump?
Oh, don't you worry. I saved the best for last. You'll notice
that many clicker trainers preach that dogs don’t understand
English. That’s why you should click away like an idiot
until your poor dog catches on that you are up to something. Hey,
even if you slap a bunch of bologna up against the wall, I promise
you that some of it will stick. But we know that they won't stay
up there for long. Back to dogs not understanding English. Then
what language are you speaking when you say tell your dog, Good
Sit, Down, Heel, Come, Stay, Good boy, Good girl, Fetch, It’s
Okay, Off or NO bite? That’s not Swahili, is it?
A client of mine had a dog that was severely aggressive toward
other dogs and kids. Prior to hiring me, she went to two different
behaviorists and they both told her that she needed to redirect
the dog’s attention to her with treats.
Here is what they recommended: The minute they got near other
dogs and kids, she needed to do lots of parallel walks while giving
the dog a bunch of treats. The idea was that the treats would
distract the dog, or make the dog think hey, I should forget about
killing dogs or killing kids.... Whoa! Is that beef jerky?
Well, that was La La land or wishful thinking folks. Here's what
really happened:
Her dog would totally ignore the treats and poor Mommy's commands
and STILL kept on lunging at every dog or kid they encountered.
Actually, if the kids weren’t that close, the dog would
take the treats and behave, but as soon as she saw them getting
a bit closer, she’d go for the kill. I guess she saw them
as dessert after all that smoked beef jerky. These behaviorists
each held a Ph.D. and meant well, but their advice didn't have
any Ph.D in it and seemed like a waste of time.
You see, it is extremely rare for a method to work without you
being able to pinpoint the logic behind why and how it works.
Normally your “common sense” will tell you if the
method or advice is the real deal or not.
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When in doubt, always ask yourself:
Does this seem rational? Am I getting anywhere with this? Are
people going to laugh at me when they catch me trying this method
with my dog?
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Even with what you read in my book or on my website, observe
it with an open mind and TRY it first. Then be the judge! Folks,
that's the beauty of being “Diverse.” Once you try
something, then you can be certain whether it did or did not work.
Otherwise, you are just relying on assumptions instead of facts.
The same rule applies if a trainer instructs you. If you saw it
on television, heard it from your trainer, or it came from someone
with a Ph.D., you need to stop and ask yourself: Does what they're
telling me seem logical or practical?
Hey, haven't you heard the saying, "Only a dead fish goes
with a flow?" Then be smart about it and don't let others
brainwash you. Effective trainers don't mind asking you, "Does
this make sense to you?" , "Do you see the logic behind
what we are trying to accomplish here?" Again, if it doesn't
make any sense, please don't make a fool out of yourself.
SMART DOGS - DUMB TRAINERS!!!
I don't understand trainers who recommend that you should bark,
growl, yelp like a puppy, or even worse, completely ignore your
dog's bad habits and wait until your dog does something good for
you to praise it. Then what is the point of hiring these bozos?
You could have done that on your own. Even doing it wrong is better
than NOT doing anything. Wouldn't you agree? So ignoring is the
same thing as not doing jack.
Wouldn't be nice if dogs did what we expected from them on
their own. Hey, kids and even most adults don't do that.
So how can you expect that from your poor dog? If you honestly
hope that out of ten things, nine of them your dog will make you
proud, then you should stop reading this book. You obviousely
have an amazing dog that is even more trained than ME.
Here's something for you to think about: Do your good habits
come to you naturally or the bad ones? Think of eating healthy,
exercising, saving, driving carefully, watching less TV, reading
quality books, and spending more time with your loves ones. Do
any of these great habits come to you naturally? No they don't.
In fact, you always have to keep on pushing and reminding yourself
to follow them on a regular basis. Checkmate!
Look, we were taught to use common sense from a very early age.
In case you forgot, the teaching was: “Stop and think.”
It wasn't “Go for it, Chopper! Then think of the consequences
later." (Now for some of us, getting the lesson afterward
works much better. I guess as long as we "get it" that's
all that really matters, doesn't it?)
Ignoring your dog's bad habits is not natural or ratinal. If
you don't believe me, then keep on ignoring your dog jumping up
on you, on your guests, on counters, and on poor kids. Prove it
to me that will work. Hey, don't prove it to me, I always say,
prove it to yourself.
3. They Have an Uncanny
Ability to Pay Attention to Details
Yes, details, my dog-loving friend. Sometimes the smallest details
make the biggest difference, and this rule also applies when you
are dealing with dogs and their owners. These experts are like
a sponge and hardly miss anything--which is another reason why
they are so good at what they do.
Whether I fly to my clients, or they send their
dogs to me, I ask many questions and like a crime scene investigator,
I observe everything and I do mean EVERYTHING.
It's very similar to studying your opponent's strengths and weaknesses.
I observe your training technique, the dog’s history and
your overall perception of your dog. Are you firm, easy-going,
loud, harsh, or persistent? Do you get nervous or afraid while
handling your dog?
Perhaps you are the type of owner who thinks that
saying "NO" to him might hurt his feelings and that
his tail will never wag again!
I cannot emphasize enough the importance of such
details and how crucial it is to work with an expert in "private."
By paying attention to details, I can accomplish much more even
if I train your dog in my boot camp and without your involvement.
............................................................................................ Every topnotch trainer that I have studied, has trained
his or her
dog without any distractions first. Learn from the best and make
it your own.
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World-class trainers always introduce distractions to their clients’
dogs gradually and systematically. That is how they are able to
deliver eyebrow-raising results. Hiring an expert that offers
private lessons is the only way you'll be able to ask questions
that pertain "specifically" to you and your needs. Top
trainers know that the one-on-one approach is THE BEST and quickest
way to get maximum results.
Bottom line, by working in private, a trainer will get to see
things from both the owner's and the dog's perspective.
4. They'll Make Sure You Don't End Up With Only
a "Half-Trained" Dog
This means their method is practical. Remember, your training
technique has to work anywhere and anytime or else you're wasting
your time. Unless their way of training is the "real deal,"
you are setting up yourself and your poor dog for a disaster.
Let me clarify. These trainers will make sure that your dog is
not just another “Half-trained Dog.”
You know, the dogs that:
* Pays attention somewhat in class,
but not otherwise * Sort of listens when there are
minor or no distractions * Obeys the trainer but NOT you or
anyone else in your family * Responds only when it knows for
sure that he is going to get a treat
In other words, as soon as your dog sees another dog, a cat,
the mailman, a visitor drops by or spots a squirrel, all the obedience
goes out the window. That's what I mean by a "half-trained
dog." Elite trainers always prepare you and your dog to become
street-smart. Making your dog do tricks can be fun and cute, but
tricks are rarely practical. Always remember this: If your training
method stops working around people that your dog loves or feels
threatened by, like a typical visitor or a complete stranger,
you can’t refer to it as "real-life" dog training.
So if you have a half-trained dog, it probably means you've
been wasting your time and money with the wrong method, wrong
classes and certainly the wrong trainer. And of course, make sure
that you don’t forget “yourself.” You, as the
owner of your dog, need to make sure that you are not the half-trained
member of the pack. Hey, it happens.
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If a method is truly effective, you'll see it working immediately.
And if someone's just feeding you a bunch of bologna, you'll see
that too. Topnotch trainers often deliver jaw-dropping results
within minutes and sometimes even seconds.
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Rookies always tell you that it takes time or it can't be done
or whatever. I always tell my clients: "By the second lesson,
we will talk about how bad your dog used to behave and how he
has changed for the better already."
If you've watched any of the video clips on my site, you may
be surprised to learn that I have trained most of those dogs in
a matter of minutes. Pay close attention to the shadows on the
ground, and you'll see that little time has passed. I get the
dog under control immediately and they respond to me on the spot.
The rest is just polishing up and making sure the dog obeys the
owner. After all, it is NOT my dog, and your dog should respond
to you and respect your authority.
5. They Know How to Get Your
Dog Completely Off-leash Trained
Only a few owners and trainers get to this level. Your goal should
be to eventually have COMPLETE CONTROL of your dog without having
him leashed. That’s right, a dog that obeys you from across
the room, across the street, in the yard and even from a distance,
using your normal tone of voice. Again, I said your normal VOICE,
not screams from the top of your lungs.
Only true professionals can deliver such results.
These top trainers proudly advertise this specialty. Since the
majority of trainers work with dogs for fun--they aren’t
able to successfully get their own dogs off-leash trained--let
alone help you achieve this task with your untrained pooch. Bottom
line, amateurs are rarely able to master the art to off-leash
control.
................................................................................................................ Just about anywhere you go, you will be forced to abide
the leash law.
Which is why having your dog completely "off-leash trained"
isn't just cool, but NECESSARY!
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I mentioned this earlier, but it’s worth repeating: You
and your pooch need to be prepared for those "what if"
scenarios. What if your dog bolts out the door, manages to slip
out of her collar, breaks her collar, or attacks a dog or cat?
Maybe your dog was running free, everything was fine and he was
just hanging out when all of a sudden ______________ (you fill
in the blank). The truth is, no matter how careful or responsible
you may be, someday your dog WILL get loose and will make a fool
out of you. Only a very small percentage of trainers have the
expertise to teach you the true art of off-leash training. Make
sure you hire the right one.
My clients love to get their dogs completely off-leash trained.
And sadly, about ninety percent of them have already worked with
a few trainers who didn't have a clue how to get a dog so off-leash
trained to the point of just “verbal response.” The
few that did notice an off-leash trained dog in the class happened
to be the trainer’s dog. Even on graduation day, the trainer's
dog was still the only dog that was off-leash trained. This clearly
indicates that the trainer was able to get his or her own dog
to that level of training, but failed to do so with the poor owners’
dogs. A case of “great trainer, but a poor instructor,”
fits this example like OJ's glove!
6. Your Dog Being too Young or Too Old NEVER Matters
to Them
Whether it is a ten-week-old pup or a ten-year-old adult dog,
they all can learn the difference between right and wrong and
what is acceptable in your house and what isn't. A real expert
can help teach your dog to respond to your daily commands and
also tackle his most annoying bad habits, such as barking, jumping,
growling, snapping or bolting out. These trainers are well-educated
and experienced in solving not only your dog's day-to-day problems,
but even the most difficult cases. Why let an older dog or even
a young puppy run your life for you, when you are the one who
is paying all the bills and providing everything else? The least
your dog can do is obey your wishes and respect the rules of your
house. Is that too much to ask?
7. They Gladly Accept Even Hard-to-Train and Bully Breeds
Elite experts are skilled, versatile and willing to face the
challenge of working with ANY dog. Stubborn or dominant dogs are
no different. It doesn't really matter to them if your dog is
labeled as aggressive, un-trainable, red zone, or even hopeless.
They are willing to take on the challenge and have the expertise
to back it up. The majority of trainers flat out refuse to work
with difficult, big and dominant breeds. As soon as you mention
that you have a Rottweiler, and before you get the chance to say
that it is just a “puppy,” most will cut you off.
“I’m sorry, but we don’t accept that breed.”
Diverse trainers have the experience to work with toughest breeds
such as Pit Bulls, Rottweilers, Akitas, Dobermans, German Shepherds,
Bull Dogs, Chow Chows, Shar Peis, and even those giant breeds
that look like a Pit Bull on steroids. I am talking about Presa
Canario, Cane Corso, Dogo Aregentino and my mom’s favorite—Kevin
Salemo.
Some of you may find this hard to believe, but even a chocolate
labrador retriever can be challenging to train. That’s because
this popular breed is known to be very strong, hyper, over-friendly
and easily distracted. A true dog lover will never discriminate
against any breed. Whether your dog happens to be small, big,
scary, wussy, mixed, or a breed with a bad reputation, it doesn't
make one bit of difference. A dog is simply another dog to them.
8. Their Method Might Be Firm But is Also Kind
Let's face it, no parent can ever raise a child effectively
without being firm and kind. Firm alone may get you some results,
but adding "kind" is what makes the relationship loving
and healthy.
I met a trainer years ago who had a super-trained dog. This dog
was one of the best trained German Shepherds that I have ever
seen. But there is a sad side to the story. When his owner would
release him and send him off to play, the dog would just stand
there and look at him, waiting for another command. You guessed
it. The dog acted like a soldier or a robot instead of a happy
dog, a classic case of "over-training" a dog. The poor
thing just couldn't have any fun. He didn’t even want to
play with my dogs or interact with people. How sad. I told the
trainer, “It’s obvious you’ve done a great job
becoming your dog’s master, but you are definitely NOT his
buddy.” He shrugged and said, “Kevin, why don't you
be his best friend? I don't really care about stuff like that.”
Nobody has the right to blame you for being your dog's "buddy."
But even as your dog's friend, you should still teach your dog
to follow your rules and to meet your expectations. The idea is
to praise when your dog responds to you and be corrected for bad
behavior, on the spot. As long as you don't confuse firm with
harsh or abusive, your dog will turn out to be a balanced dog.
Don't forget that firm could be as simple as tugging on the leash
when you catch your dog misbehaving, and as soon as you see him
responding, praise him with kind words and lots of affection.
Dog trainers execute leash correction to stop a dog from lunging,
jumping, barking excessively, snapping or even crotch/butt sniffing.
Holding tightly onto your dog's leash isn't training. That's
just restraining and any moron can do that. Do you want to train
your dog or restrain it? That's what I thought. You'll always
know when you see a true pro. They make working with dogs seem
so easy and effortless, that you’d swear they can even do
it blindfolded. You’ll see your dog respond to them right
before your eyes. And best of all, they will make sure that you
are able to get the same level of response from your dog.
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You can’t help but notice how smooth their technique flows
as you watch
your dog perform at his best, right before your eyes.
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This again proves that they have years of hands-on experience.
Reading a bunch of dog books or training a few of your friends'
and neighbors' dogs on weekend won’t even scratch the surface.
These folks have trained if not thousands, at least hundreds of
dogs which is why they have the confidence AND the skill to back
it up. Why do you think they are able to accurately read your
dog's temperament and body language at the drop of a hat. Their
uncanny ability goes beyond skill and knowledge, and sometimes
even reaches an instinctual level. And there is something funny
about instinct, like class, you either have it or you don’t.
9. They Let You Experiment with Different Training Tools
Here's an interesting experiment: Gather the best-of-the-best
experts in the world, but take away all tools of their choice.
That's right, don't let them use any collars, leashes, treats,
tennis balls or any other toys. They might as well be totally
naked. Then throw in some unruly dogs with them. You’ll
see that there wouldn’t be much even these topnotch trainers
could do. Now, unless one of them possesses some kind of super
mind-control power like Criss Angel, which you'll agree that he
is a memorable performer. Even the almighty Cesar Millan needs
his tennis racket while dealing with unpredictable and snappy
dogs.
Think about this for a moment. Could you do YOUR job without
your pen, paper, phone, vehicle, computer or certain tools and
equipment? Some of you probably could, but you have to agree proper
tools make our jobs much easier. In fact, it would be like jumping
into a time machine and traveling hundreds of years back without
them. So the use of proper tools and technology always improve
the speed and quality of our work. Some even cut down on the cost
and manpower. It is no different when it comes to "dog training"
tools.
These trainers will let you try different collars so you find
out for yourself which gets your dog’s attention and which
do not. They use every “weapon” they can get their
hands on to make sure you are able to control your dog in ANY
situation. Getting you real and long-term results is their main
objective! They always think outside the box and adapt to meet
your goals and expectation.
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Diverse Trainers know from experience that there is no “magic
tool” that works on every
dog, every time. Through trial and error they make sure
what works in your home, also will around people and dogs!
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After all, why would you use a tool that has stopped working
or was never effective in the first place? If one tool doesn't
even seem to faze your dog when you REALLY need it to, what’s
the point of using it? That is like buckling your seat belt to
a clip that barely holds, but you do it anyway to fool the cops.
Now take a close look at your training tool that you are using
with your dog. Does it stop your dog from misbehaving around total
strangers? What about around other dogs that your pooch may not
know? Don't forget the cats, kids, joggers or moving cars. I’m
sure you’ll agree that most of the distractions that I just
described fall under our day-to-day distractions.
Sadly, the majority of trainers limit you to only one particular
tool. This tool might work on a small dog that isn’t too
dominant or too aggressive. But hoping or assuming that the same
tool would get you the same results with a much larger, stronger
or far more aggressive dog is just not reality. In fact, it reminds
me of bringing a knife to a gun fight. Unless you are some kind
of super ninja like me, you won’t stand a chance. My ninja
moves evolve around the TV remote. I have all the buttons memorized
and can work it blindfolded.
Most trainers stubbornly refuse to let you experiment with different
tools. Not allowing you to be diverse just doesn't make sense
to me, especially if you've already followed the trainer’s
advice with little or no success.
Regardless of what the trainers belief, I think that the owners
should have the right to make a decision for their own dog. The
fair thing to do for me is to leave all options on the table and
let the owner choose. Unfortunately, many trainers are familiar
with other dog training tools on the market, but they keep the
poor owners in the dark.
That's what it takes to be diverse, my dear frustrated dog lover.
You must find what works best for you and “this dog.”
Not what worked on your previous dog, your neighbors' dogs, your
friends' dogs or the other dogs in the class. We are all different
and so are our canine friends.
A diverse expert will gladly help you find the one that matches
your strength, mobility, limitation and, let’s not forget--
expectations. They also will consider your dog's size, speed,
breed and prey drive. Their whole focus is to help you select
the right tool that works great for you AND your dog. And that
tool better work around hard-to-ignore distractions, or else try
something else. I’m a strong believer in having a strong
technique and a positive attitude, but having a useful tool also
takes you one step further and might be the key factor to your
success.
10. They Never Ever Give Up and Follow
the "Diverse Method"
The best and the brightest never believe that your dog cannot
be trained. Their mindset is completely different from those average
trainers. They focus more on HOW they can help you. This means
they are always willing to explore different methods if and when
necessary. To adapt, improvise, think outside the box and push
the envelope, is what they are famous for. In a nutshell, what
makes these trainers brilliant is their versatility and ability
to mix different methods in a smart, effective and a nonviolent
fashion. Their goal is to custom fit an approach that works best
for you and your pooch.
I’ve read many books on dog training, dog
behavior and dog psychology. Learning from books is great, but
I believe that “if you do EVERYTHING from a book, then it
means you can’t do much outside the book.” After all,
that’s how we grow and become creative, isn't it?
In conclusion, there are many trainers out there,
but only a few masters. These ten elements are the true qualities
of the legendary experts in the field. Such greatness is extremely
hard to come by. As I mentioned earlier, I believe that they make
up less than one percent of the canine professionals in the business.
And yes, the best always has a price tag. I have met and worked
with many of them in person and found them to be amazing. They
were excellent trainers AND amazing instructors. They were extremely
confident and sometimes even a bit cocky—but they always
backed it up with their skill and knowledge. This reminds me of
another thing I always say..
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"It's good to be humble, unless you are pressed against the
wall and only then
should you be able to CRUSH your competition." Or, "Act
strong when you're weak and weak when you're strong." (That
last one isn't mine. I borrowed it
from the boxing movie, Gladiator.)
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Most of these experts have dedicated years of their lives making
a difference by helping pet owners and other trainers. Remember,
there is a big difference between having a well-behaved dog and
possessing the technique, knowledge, patience and, most important,
the passion to teach it to others. These experts have mastered
all ten of these principles! This is why they are incredibly successful
and come highly recommended.
If you are a trainer reading this and your goal is to become
one of the greatest, study and master all ten of these factors.
Don't settle for “good,” “better,” or
even “excellent,” but aim to be among the greatest
icons, dog phenomena, and the true legends by excelling in every
single one of these traits. That's what it takes to become one
of the best and brightest.
Is there a legend in your town? Maybe, maybe not. Most of my
clients travel for hours to work with me. Some even fly me to
their city or country because they aren't impressed by any of
their local “trainers.” Or the expert told them that
their dog was hopeless.
Written by International
Trainer and Dog Psychologist, Kevin "The Dog Prodigy"
Taken from Kevin's Book,
"Hidden Secrets Behind Dog Training"
We all die. The goal isn't to live forever, the goal is
to create something that will.”
--Chuck Palahniuk
This Book Gives You a Totally
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Book's Description:
This book takes a deeper look at modern dog training and canine
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Think about it. If there are more than four hundred
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that fact? You see, every dog was bred specifically for a purpose.
So for any expert to argue that you can train EACH AND EVERY ONE
with just Positive Reinforcement or Negative Reinforcement show
their arrogance, lack of experience and diversity.
The secret is to follow a "Diverse Reinforcement"
because, just as with humans, dogs don't always respond to a strictly
positive or negative approach. Here's where it gets more interesting.
All dog trainers know this, but don't or can't teach it in their
training method.
!!! Now
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Look, you are definitely NOT going to be safe, smart or successful
if you rely on just one way of training as a crutch. The key to
greatness is to arm yourself with different training techniques
that will prepare you for ANY dog, despite their age, size, strengths,
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about being "Diverse" because no method and no training
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That's just a fact! This is one of those rare books that will
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you to push yourself far beyond your leash or your bag of treats.
It is filled with life lessons along with my incredible journey
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If you are the sensitive type, you may get a few lumps in your
throat. I've spent a decade writing this book, which inspired
me to learn something new from every dog, every owner and every
trainer I've encountered. So, in a way, the book has grown with
me.
My hope is that when you finish it, both you and your dog will
be able to communicate with one another much more effectively.
--Kevin "The Dog Prodigy"
Master Dog Trainer / Author
About the Author:
Kevin Salem is considered to be a prominent philosopher and one
of the brightest minds in the world of dog training. It’s
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Ever since he was young, Kevin has been able to relate and communicate
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He is one of those rare experts in his field who has the knowledge
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He is proud of saving hundreds of these dogs from abandonment,
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Kevin gained his experience from studying and practicing different
methods of training. To expand his knowledge even further, he
also compared the strengths and weaknesses of different theories
from more than a hundred books on dog training, dog behavior,
and canine psychology.
Mr. Salem currently operates his school, Dog Secrets, where
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