They Are Rude, Pushy, Condescending on the Phone AND in Person
These guys may love your dog and your money, but they can’t
stand people and in my honest opinion, should be in a different
field. Let’s face it, if you don’t get a good vibe
from someone from their website, on the phone, or even in person,
look elsewhere. You'll be stuck with them for weeks or even months
down the road. At the same token, I've met many wonderful individuals
who delivered poor or no results.
WARNING SIGN #2:
They Rely Heavily on the Use
of Treats for Everything
Don’t be one of those owners that can’t do much without
holding a cookie. It's best to use goodies once in a while and
as a surprise. Even better, use them at the "very end"
of your training sessions. If you show your dog the treat prior
giving a command, sorry, your dog is actually listening because
of the treat. (Your dog should listen to you because you said
so and because you are his provider!)
WARNING SIGN #3:
They Fall Under Your Typical
"Obedience" Trainer
These trainers might know how to teach your dog to walk on a
loose leash, stay for a few seconds or lie down, but don’t
have a clue how about behavioral issues. I'm talking about being
able to solve over-protectiveness towards other dogs, towards
people, anxiety, to get it completely housetrained, stop it from
jumping up, barking, fighting, nipping, biting and deal with fearfulness.
WARNING SIGN #4:
They Push For Group Classes and
Hate Doing Private Lessons
Even the most skilled and the most experienced trainers can’t
do much in a group setting. This is just a fact. Every dog owner
comes with their own separate agendas. In these classes is where
dogs lunge at each other, bark, growl, whimper, pull on leash
or even try attack one another nonstop. How is this productive?
Sometimes you end up with a dog that somehow listens in the class,
but runs the show at home or may listen at home, but makes you
look like an idiot in front of total strangers. Most group class
trainers will NOT offer any house calls or private lessons even
if their life depends on it.
WARNING SIGN #5:
They Don’t Give You Any References or Let You Observe a
Class
Okay. Although you rarely accomplish much in a group class, a
trainer should still let you observe any class of your choosing.
It’s even worse if they refuse to give out any references.
Look, if you do a great job, people naturally rave about you.
So if a trainer gets offended or even mad at you when you ask
for a reference--definitely count that as another red flag!
WARNING SIGN #6:
They Refuse to Get Everyone in
Your Family Involved with the Training
If the trainer gets annoyed or upset when others want to be involved
in training the dog, this indicates they want “you”
to carry on the torch all by yourself. So what will end up happening
is the dog may listen only to that one family member and become
a pain in the behind for everyone else. You'll definitely pay
the price once that individual isn’t around or worse, out
of town.
WARNING SIGN #7:
They Tell You to Ignore Your
Dog’s Bad Behavior
Yes, you read it correctly. They tell you to ignore your dog’s
jumping up, barking or whatever and WAIT until your dog actually
stops on its own. Hmm… isn’t that the same as not
doing Jack?!?! Why even hire an expert in the first place if you
can just ignore it all on your own and lose your sanity for free?
Oh, the same trainers might also recommend that you never ever
say NO to your dog. Their solution: Try saying “Eh-eh”
or even worse, bark, growl or yelp like a puppy. Sorry. But NO,
means NO, means NO!!!
WARNING SIGN #8:
They Are too Harsh with Their
Training Method.
Although I agree that every dog is different. Those that do need
a firmer approach, doesn’t mean that they need to get their
ass kicked. So please, no hitting, yelling, hanging or slamming
your poor dog on its back to prove your point. The only time you
need to go to this extreme is to save yourself, a loved one, or
a pet for being viciously attacked.
WARNING SIGN #9:
They Will NOT Let You Try a Different
Training Tool
You always hear trainers preach: Never use choke chains, only
gentle leaders, no pinch collars in my class, we only use shock
collars or blah blah blah. The truth is, no tool works every
time, on every dog and with every owner. Don't be afraid
to experiment and never limit your options. Find the one tool
that gets your dog’s attention no matter how tempting the
distraction may be. This simply means that particular tool should
stop your dog from misbehaving around other dogs, cats, kids,
squirrels or moving cars.
If someone insists that they know better, challenge them by handing
over your dog's leash and say: Here, please show me what you’ve
got and the tool in which you swear by. And it better work right
NOW! (Hint: That's how you'll know if the tool is getting your
dog's attention. It will work immediately. It won't take eight
weeks. Eight seconds is more like it.)
WARNING SIGN #10:
They Don't Bother Returning Your
Calls or Check on Your Progress.
(Especially Once You Already Paid Them!)
This is where you find out about someone’s morals and ethics.
How responsive they are AFTER you already paid them or after that
credit card transaction goes through. For example, there are many
trainers that cheat you out of your money with fake lifetime follow
ups. When you get to read the fine print on their contract, you’ll
find that it was only a lifetime of phone consultation. Hey, there
are crooks in every field and dog training isn’t any different.
Written by Master Trainer and Author, Kevin "The Dog Prodigy"
Salem.
The Best
& The Worst Trainers (In Much
More Depth and Detail)
From the Book "Hidden Secrets Behind Dog Training."
Written by Master Trainer and Dog Psychologist - Kevin "The
Dog Prodigy"
There are thousands of “average trainers,” with an
“average knowledge,” who charge you an “average
price,” and deliver, well, that “average results!”
Just by ignoring this simple fact, many of you will end up with
poor or even worse--no results whatsoever!
So who emerges from the pack? There is an amazing energy and
spirit about world class trainers which are hard to find. It isn't
just about being good or gifted with dogs. There is so much more
into it and these guys truly get that.
This chapter opens your eyes to the traits and qualities of the
smartest and the most successful minds in the canine world. You
guessed it. I am talking about those "dream trainers!"
Because of their knowledge, drive and passion, they help thousands
of dog owners and dog enthusiasts worldwide. Again, I’m
referring to the best and brightest.
Just like most success stories, luck had very little to do with
their high level of success. That’s right. You can’t
say that they were at the right place at the right time or happened
to meet the right person. And to a certain degree, some of them
probably were in the right place, but before you know it, they
kept paddling on their own.
Don't let this discourage you, but in my opinion, these individuals
only make up less than one percent of the top experts in the business.
In my years of rubbing elbows with so many different trainers,
I’ve known the ones who enjoy fine wine and caviar with
the rich and famous. I’ve known those who only taught group
classes and didn’t want to go to the next level and were
always struggling. I've met those who settled for just being a
part-timer or trained people's dogs for fun.
And of course, I’ve also met trainers who were very successful,
but weren’t really happy. These folks—no matter how
much money and success came their way— it was never enough.
They simply wanted all the business. To them, the glass was always
half empty. You could reassure them by saying, “Don’t
worry. There are enough dogs for all of us and you can’t
win them all, nor do you really want to.”
They’d hear it, but it wouldn’t register. Some of
them bombard the search engines with numerous websites. As if
they want the entire pizza for themselves. Hey, we all know eating
a whole pizza by yourself is definitely not healthy for you! When
you give, you shall receive. That’s how great the universe
works.
The ones who stand out from the pack are truly unique in every
aspect. These folks love what they do. This is why it is so hard
to get a hold of them. As Dr. Phil would say, "They don't
have a free hand to throw a rock." They are often overbooked
and have a waiting list. Teaching, training, conducting seminars,
and traveling everywhere to promote their services or their book
are just to name a few. Sometimes they are busy training others
to follow their passion or to carry on the torch.
Bottom line, their mission is important to them! I guess what
I'm trying to say is that canine professionals aren't any different
from the rest of us. You decide under which category I fall.
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I learned a long time ago that the best way to get better at anything
is to put your ego aside and learn from someone who has true superior
skills and an impressive record to back it up.
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Often this comes down to hiring the best expert money can buy.
I also have learned a lot from the worst-of-the-worst. How you
ask? It’s very simple. You just do the opposite of what
you see with these morons and you’ll make it big. Analyze
all of their mistakes, failures and disasters and you’ll
learn a few great valuable lessons of what NOT to do!
After years of studying those who are considered to be the "real
deal," I've noticed that these individuals operate in a totally
different class and mentality. And no wonder their success rate
was so hard to ignore. When put to the test, these ten qualities
about them stood out immediately:
1. They care about you, your dog and your success.
2. Their training method is backed by logic and common sense.
3. They have an uncanny ability to pay attention to details.
4. They'll make sure you don't end up with a "half-trained"
dog.
5. They know how to get your dog completely off-leash trained.
6. Your dog being too young or too old doesn't matter to them.
7. They gladly accept even hard-to-train and bully breeds.
8. Their method might be firm but it is also kind.
9. They let you experiment with different training tools.
10. They never ever give up and follow the "Diverse Method".
1. They Care about You, Your Dog and Your Success
One of the things we always remember about someone is their character.
Sadly, moral, ethics and principals aren't that easy to come by
these days.
You see, in my opinion, it’s not always about
how much you know or how great you are, but it is also about how
much you "care." This simply means these
trainers are truly nice individuals. The old saying, "Nice
guys finish last" isn't their motto. Studies have shown that
nice people live longer, happier, are surrounded by positive people,
attract more business and of course, rarely get sued or killed.
Some of them also have a great sense of humor. Sorry, only some.
I always believe that people look much better when they’re
smiling, which is why I am known to make my clients if not laugh,
at least smile here and there. Why we have so many dog trainers
that are rude, mean, and offensive is beyond me.
We can tell a lot about someone the minute we talk
to them. That is, if you are even able to reach any trainer on
the phone or in person. Which brings up the question of caring,
once again.
Those who care, not only get back to you, but often
try to reach you immediately. They understand that many of may
need help right away! Grab the phone book or e-mail some trainers
from their web sites. You'll soon be disappointed that most will
leave you hanging and make you grow gray waiting for a response.
It’s About Having That “Moral Compass!”
You can always tell when someone
is genuinely nice and helpful towards you. And I'm not just talking
about dog training here.
Here's an example: If a trainer never returns
any of your calls or won't even bother to be interested in your
progress--especially when you already paid them--what
does that really say about their character and morals? You guessed
it. It was all about your money for them, nothing more and nothing
less.
Those who go from best and brightest to "brilliant,"
know that some things go far beyond ones knowledge and skills,
but also about treating people ethically and as human beings.
When you are shopping around, and when you're finally able to
get a live person on the phone, see if you get a good vibe from
them. If not, don't even bother. No matter how good an expert
may be, you don’t want to be stuck with a jerk, psycho,
weirdo, nut job, and the list goes on and on.
When it comes to intuition, women are much more perceptive than
men. They often say, "It has to feel right." Or "I
didn't get a good vibe from that person." If a trainer makes
you feel uncomfortable by being too pushy, rude or condescending,
remember, you could be stuck with this individual in your home,
in private, or in some group class for eight weeks or even longer.
True professionals always answer your tough questions with patience
and respect. They don't mind or feel offended when you challenge
their knowledge or expertise.
These folks don't just deliver, they outdo their competition
by caring about their image and their reputation. And it's no
secret that all these efforts automatically make them stand out
from others in their field. They know going that extra mile WILL
get them that extra result.
After all, how many times have you hired a painter, a contractor,
an attorney, or even a babysitter who disappointed you with their
poor ethics? They did a poor job or didn't even care. As some
say, "They just go with the flow and rarely accept constructive
criticism from nobody." In a nutshell, you just don't see
that "wow factor" or that "pizzazz" in their
work. Noooooooo, I didn't say pizza. So please don’t reach
for that Parmesan cheese or crushed peppers.
Nine out of ten of my clients have already tried PetSmart, Petco,
local training classes or have worked with a private trainer and
weren't that impressed with the outcome.
In almost every case, the trainer was another amateur who trained
on the side. Now, for some of you who DID hire a professional,
you probably found out the hard way that they weren’t that
“professional” after all. Let me explain: They were
definitely a pro, but also a pro at doing a lousy job or a pro
at ripping you off!
Let’s face it, there are millions of people out there
who do something for a living but don't have their heart and soul
in it. There is no passion. They just can't wait until they get
out of their workplace. Which explains why the rate of heart attacks
is at its highest on Mondays!
How fast someone gets back to you, or if they even bother to
get back to you at all, is just one of the things to consider
when looking for a reputable expert. Let me give you an example:
A lot of group class trainers won’t return your call if
they don't have a class starting. The same applies if their class
happens to be full or they won’t be holding any during the
winter. What's worse is they don’t even bother to mention
this on their voicemail.
It’s fair to assume that you are not a psychic and won’t
know why nobody got back to you. Was it because their class was
full or because they don't train your particular breed of dog?
Maybe it’s because the trainer is out of town, sick, wants
to take a break or is not accepting any more clients at the moment.
I'm sure you'd agree that the polite and professional thing to
do is to at least mention this on your answering machine. Even
better, they could have an actual person get back to you by phone
or e-mail to let you know what's really going on. But sadly, this
is rarely the case.
Whether it is in person, on the phone, or by e-mail, the ones
who truly stand out are usually very responsive, caring and professional.
Most of them rarely sound pushy or desperate. One of my saying
is, "Not everyone recognizes, appreciates, or even deserves
the very best."
What I also found fascinating about these successful experts
was not only that they were incredible trainers, but actually
great counselors. Don’t get offended when I say this, but
the majority of you get nervous, tense and sometimes even too
harsh with your dog.
Some people can’t or simply won’t follow instructions
properly, and some are too loud or get abusive with their dogs.
And of course many of you refuse to get firm, especially when
your dog happens to challenge everything you tell him to do. Now,
THAT is when people skills come in handy. You really need to make
sure you don't ignore the other end of the leash.
If you happen to work with a few trainers in the past, I’m
betting that most of them never even bothered to point out your
good qualities. Let's face it, it's not that difficult to jump
on someone's flaws and weaknesses! This naturally makes anyone
feel tense, less motivated, and in some cases, even a bit shy
around the trainer.
Many dog schools focus most of their efforts on nit-picking,
correcting and scolding you in front of your entire family or,
even worse, in front of complete strangers in a group setting.
How can this be fun or productive? What makes a good trainer brilliant
is his or her ability to praise your good habits while pointing
out your mistakes in a courteous, yet constructive manner.
Unfortunately, the majority of dog trainers lack people skills
and are famous for treating the "owners" like dogs.
I had to learn this the hard way.
The ones who make a positive impact among pet owners are those
who realize there is a difference between insulting someone and
giving them a critique. The truth is, there are hundreds of great
"trainers" out there, but only a few great "instructors"!
As I mentioned earlier, the challenge lies in teaching and showing
the people. Dogs are easy.
Here's an example: I had a trainer who worked for me that told
one of our clients that if he kept on yanking his dog's leash
for no reason, that she'd jerk HIS NECK to show him how it felt.
Now, she obviously cared about the dog, but couldn't care less
about getting her point across without losing her cool or offending
the owner. There are right and wrong ways to stand up for a dog,
and the way she handled it was definitely not nice or professional.
2. Their Training Method Is Backed by Common Sense
As a writer I hate saying this, but please don't believe everything
you read—especially things that just don't make any sense.
If the method doesn’t seem logical to you or sounds a bit
foolish, how do you suppose your poor dog is going to make sense
out of it? Some trainers come up with absurd and irrational methods
and try to brainwash you left and right.
Let me give you a few examples: Many treat trainers tell you to
never say your dog’s name when you catch him misbehaving
or making a mistake. Is that logical? So, let's assume you have
two dogs and one of them starts humping little Johnny. You yell
out NO HUMPING! Don’t you think that would make both of
your dogs jump? Wouldn’t that confuse the one that wasn't
even misbehaving? Then please stop the nonsense.
You'd be far more effective to mention the name of the dog which
is making the mistake, either before or after reprimanding it.
Hey, totally leaving your dog’s name out would work fine,
if it was just the two of you. But if you have more than one dog,
I’m sure you’ll agree that it doesn’t make much
sense to completely leave out the dog’s name and hope he'll
catch on.
Here's a Different Scenario: Let's
say you catch one of your dogs chewing on your favorite shoes
while the other one is dead asleep snoring. Are you supposed to
just scream bloody murder--"LEAVE IT"--and make both
of them jump?
Oh, don't you worry. I saved the best for last. Many clicker
trainers preach that dogs don’t understand English. That’s
why they rather rely on the sound of a clicking sound instead
of kind words to praise a dog. Call me old school, but I rather
praise my four-legged friend with lots of verbal and physical
praise instead of some clicking device. But then again, that's
just me. Hey, even if you slap a bunch of bologna up against the
wall, I promise you that some will stick.
Back to dogs not understanding English. Then what language are
you speaking when you tell your dog: Sit, Down, Heel, Come, Stay,
Good boy, Good girl, Fetch, It’s Okay, Off or NO bite? That’s
not Swahili, is it?
A client of mine had a dog that showed extreme aggression towards
dogs and kids. Prior to hiring me, she went to two different behaviorists
and they both told her that she needed to redirect the dog’s
attention to her by using lots of yummy treats.
Here is what they recommended: The minute they got near other
dogs and kids, she needed to do lots of parallel walks while giving
the dog a bunch of treats. (Parallel walks?! That's what I said
too.) The idea was that the treats would distract the dog, or,
make the dog think, "Hey, I should forget about killing kids
or dogs.... WHOA Dude! Is that beef jerky in your hand?"
Well, that was La La land or wishful thinking
for you. So here's what happened instead:
Her dog would totally ignore the treats and poor Mommy's commands
and STILL kept lunging at every dog or kid they encountered. Actually,
if the kids weren’t that close, the dog would take the treats
and behave, but as soon as she saw them getting a bit closer,
she’d go for the kill. I guess she saw them as dessert after
all that smoked beef jerky. These behaviorists each held a Ph.D.
and meant well, but their advice didn't have any Ph.D in it and
seemed like a waste of time.
You see, it is extremely rare for a method to work without you
being able to pinpoint the logic behind why and how it works.
Normally your common sense will tell you if the method or advice
is the real deal or not.
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When in doubt, always ask yourself:
Does this seem rational? Am I getting anywhere with this? Are
people going to laugh at me when they catch me trying this method
with my dog?
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Even with what you read in my book or on my website, observe
it with an open mind and TRY it first. Then be the judge! Folks,
that's the beauty of being “Diverse.” Once you honestly
try different ways, only then you can be certain which method
worked and which didn't. Otherwise, you are just relying on assumptions
instead of facts. Whether you see a certain technique on television,
hear it from your trainer, or it comes from someone with a Ph.D.,
you need to stop and ask yourself: Does what they're telling me
seem logical or practical? And besides getting rid of my dog,
what other options do I have.
Haven't you heard the saying, "Only a dead fish goes with
a flow?" Then be smart about it and don't let others influence
or brainwash you. Effective trainers don't mind asking you, "Does
this make sense to you?" or "Do you see the logic behind
what we are trying to accomplish here?" Again, if it doesn't
make any sense, please don't make a fool out of yourself.
SMART DOGS - DUMB TRAINERS!!!
There, I said it. I never understood trainers that recommend you
bark, growl or yelp like a puppy. It's even worse when they tell
you to completely ignore your dog's bad habits and literally WAIT
until your dog does something good for you to praise it. Then
what is the point of hiring these bozos in the first place? You
could’ve done that on your own. Think about it. Even doing
it WRONG is better than doing nothing. So ignoring your dog’s
barking, jumping, scratching doors or whimpering is the same thing
as not doing jack.
Wouldn't be nice if dogs did what we expected from them on
their own. But the reality is even kids and most adults don't
do that. So how can you expect this from your poor dog? If you
honestly hope that out of ten things, nine of them your dog will
make you proud, then you should stop reading this book. You obviously
have an amazing dog that is even more trained than I am.
Here's Another Thought-Provoking Question
for You: Do your good habits come to you naturally or the
bad ones? Think of eating healthy, exercising, saving, watching
less television, reading quality books, or just getting off your
lazy ass and do something productive. Do any of these come naturally
to all of us? No they do not. In fact, we always have to keep
on pushing and reminding each other to follow them on a regular
basis. Checkmate!
Look, we were taught to use common sense from a very early age.
In case you forgot, the lesson was: “Stop and think.”
It wasn't “Go for it, Chopper! Then we'll think of the consequence!"
(Now for some of us, getting the lesson afterward works much better.
I guess as long as we get it that's all that really matters,
wouldn't you agree?)
Bottom line, ignoring your dog's bad habits is not natural, rational
or effective. If you don't believe me, then totally ignore all
of your dog's counter surfing, jumping up on you, on your guests
and ignore that embarrassing humping of everyone. Prove it to
me that this "ignoring strategy" is going to work. Best
of all, don't just prove it to me, prove it to yourself!
3. They Have an Uncanny
Ability to Pay Attention to Details
These experts are like a sponge and hardly miss anything--which
is another reason why they are so good at what they do. We've
all noticed that sometimes the smallest things make the biggest
difference.
Whether my clients pay extra for me to fly to them
or they prefer to send their dogs to me, I ask many questions
and like a crime scene investigator, observe everything and I
do mean everything. It's very similar to studying an opponent's
strengths and weaknesses.
I observe your technique, your dog’s history,
its daily routine and what you've done up to this point. Are you
firm, easy-going, loud, harsh, or persistent? Do you have a spoiled
dog and afraid that even saying "NO" to him might hurt
his feelings and we may never see him wag that tail again?
I cannot emphasize enough the importance of such
details. In fact, by paying attention to details, I always accomplish
much more even if I train your dog in my boot camp and without
your initial involvement.
............................................................................................ What I found interesting was that all successful trainers
have taught their own dogs without any distractions first. That
is a true mark of a pro!
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When you introduce distractions gradually and smartly, you'll
be able to achieve eyebrow-raising results. Hiring an expert that
offers private lessons is the only way you'll be able to ask questions
that pertain specifically to your needs. You'll soon
realize that one-on-one approach is THE best and quickest way
to get maximum results.
Bottom line, by working in private, a trainer will get to see
things from you AND your dog's perspective.
4. They'll Make Sure Your Dog Won't End Up "Half-Trained"
This means their method is practical. Remember, your training
technique has to work anywhere and anytime or else you're wasting
your time. Unless their way of training is "Diverse,"
you are setting up yourself and your poor dog for a disaster.
Let me clarify. These trainers will make sure that your dog is
not just another “Half-trained Dog.”
You know, the dogs that:
* Pays attention somewhat in class,
but not otherwise * Sort of listens around minor or
no distractions * Obeys the trainer but NOT you or
anyone else in your household * Responds only when it knows for
sure that he is going to get a treat
In other words, as soon as your dog sees another dog, a cat,
the mailman, a visitor dropping by or spots a squirrel, all the
obedience goes out the window. That's what I mean by a "half-trained
dog." Elite trainers always prepare you and your dog to become
street-smart. Making your dog do bunch of tricks can be fun and
cute, but tricks are rarely practical. Always remember this: If
your training method stops working around people that your dog
loves dearly or feels threatened by, you can’t refer to
it as real-life dog training.
So if you have a half-trained dog, it probably means you've
been wasting your time and money with the wrong method, wrong
classes and certainly the wrong trainer. Oh, and please make sure
that "you" are not the half-trained of the pack. Hey,
it happens. If a method is truly effective, you'll see it working
immediately.
Most of us can tell
when someone is just feeding you a bunch of bologna. Topnotch
trainers rarely worry about this, since they are known to deliver
jaw-dropping results within minutes and sometimes even seconds.
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Rookies always tell you that it takes time or it can't be done.
I usually tell my clients: "You watch. By the second lesson,
we'll talk about how bad your dog used to behave and how he has
changed for the better already."
If you've watched any of the video clips on my site, you may
be surprised to learn that I've trained most of those dogs in
a matter of minutes. Pay close attention to the shadows on the
ground. I get the dog under control immediately and gain their
trust on the spot. The rest is just polishing up and making sure
they obey their owners. After all, it is NOT my dog, and your
dog should learn to respond to you.
5. They Will Your Dog Completely
Off-leash Trained
Only a few owners and even trainers get to this level. Your goal
should be to eventually have COMPLETE CONTROL of your dog without
having him leashed or close to you. That’s right, a dog
that obeys you from across the room, across the street, in the
yard and even from a distance, just by using your normal tone
of voice. Again, I said normal, not screaming from the top of
your lungs.
Only true professionals can deliver such results.
These trainers proudly advertise this specialty. Since the majority
of trainers teach for fun or as hobby, their own dogs don’t
always respond to them off-leash. So how can you possibly expect
these folks to help you get such results with your unruly
dog?
Bottom line, amateurs and hobbyists don’t
have a clue about how to get your dog completely off-leash trained.
................................................................................................................ Just about anywhere you go, you will be faced with the
leash law.
Which is why having your dog completely "off-leash trained"
isn't just cool these days, but NECESSARY!
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I mentioned this earlier, but it’s definitely worth repeating
again: You and your pooch need to be prepared for those "what
if" scenarios. What if your dog bolts out the door, manages
to slip out of her collar, breaks her collar, or attacks another
dog? Maybe your dog was running free, everything was fine and
he was just hanging out when all of a sudden ______________ (you
fill in the blank). The truth is, no matter how careful or responsible
you may be, someday your dog WILL get loose and will make a fool
out of you. Only a very small percentage of trainers have the
expertise to teach you the true art of off-leash training. Make
sure you hire the right expert.
My clients love to get their dogs completely off-leash trained.
And sadly, about ninety percent of them have already worked with
a few trainers who didn't have a clue how to get a dog so trained
to the point of just “verbal response.” The few that
did notice an off-leash trained dog in the class, happened to
be the trainer’s dog. Pay a close attention on graduation
day, is the trainer's dog still the only off-leash trained dog
there? Hmm... this again clearly indicates that the instructor
was able to get his or her dog to that level of compliance, but
failed to do so with the clients' dogs. A case of great trainer,
but a poor instructor, fits this example like OJ's glove!
6. Your Dog Being too Young/Old Rarely Matters to
Them
Whether it is a ten-week-old pup or a ten-year-old adult dog,
they all can learn the difference between right and wrong and
what is acceptable in your house and what isn't. A Diverse expert
can help teach your dog to respond to your daily commands and
also tackle his most annoying bad habits, such as barking, jumping,
growling, snapping or bolting out. These trainers are well-educated
and experienced in solving your dog's day-to-day problems.
I am referring to help you tackle: Jumping Up, Play-biting,
Potty training, Overprotectiveness, Separation Anxiety, Dominance,
Hyperactivity, Counter Surfing to Bolting Out and Not Coming When
Called.
Why let an older dog or even a young puppy run your life for
you, when you are the one who is paying all the bills and providing
everything else? The least your dog can do is obey your commands
and respect the rules of your house. Is that too much to ask?
7. They Gladly Accept Hard-to-Train and Bully Breeds
Top experts are experienced in working with all breeds of dogs.
In fact, most welcome the challenge of working with tough cases.
Whether your dog is considered as a bully breed, dominant, aggressive,
un-trainable, red zone, or extremely shy, they usually will do
their best to save your dog from being put down and prove everybody
wrong. Best of all, they have the knowledge and the years of expertise
to back it up.
Let's face it. We all know that the majority of trainers flat
out refuse to work with difficult, big and dominant dogs. As soon
as you mention that you have a Rottweiler or a Pit Bull, and before
you get the chance to say that it is just a puppy or very
friendly, most will cut you off and say, “I’m
sorry, but we don’t accept that breed of dog.”
Diverse trainers have the experience to work with toughest breeds
such as Pit Bulls, Rottweilers, Akitas, Dobermans, German Shepherds,
Bull Dogs, Chow Chows, Shar Peis, and even those giant breeds
that look like a Pit Bull on steroids. I'm talking about Presa
Canario, Cane Corso, Dogo Aregentino and my mom’s favorite—Kevin
Salemo. Some of you may find this hard to believe, but even a
Labrador Retriever can be a challenge to train. That’s because
this popular breed is known to be very strong, hyper, over-friendly
and easily distracted.
A true dog lover will never discriminate against a certain breed.
Whether your dog happens to be small, big, scary, wussy, mixed,
or a breed with a bad reputation, it doesn't make one bit of difference.
A dog is just another dog to them.
8. Their Method Might Be Firm But is Also Kind
Let's face it, no parent can ever raise a child properly
without being firm and kind. Firm alone may get you somewhere,
but mixing it with "kind" is what makes a relationship
healthy and loving.
I met a trainer years ago who had a super-trained
dog. This dog was one of the best trained German Shepherds that
I have ever seen. But there is a sad side to the story. When his
owner would release him and send him off to play, the dog would
just stand there and look at him. Some of you guessed it. The
dog was simply waiting for the next command and in a way, acted
like a soldier instead of a happy dog.
This is what I call "over-training"
a dog. The poor thing just couldn't have fun. He didn’t
even want to play with my dogs or interact with people. How
sad. I told the trainer, “It’s obvious you’ve
done a great job becoming your dog’s master, but you are
definitely not his buddy.” He shrugged and said, “Kevin,
you can be his best friend. I don't really care about stuff like
that.”
How is this NOT common sense? The idea is to praise
when your dog when he responds to you and correct him for behaving
badly on the spot. As long as you don't confuse firm with harsh
or abusive, your dog will end up with a balanced dog.
Don't forget that firm could be as simple as tugging on the leash
when you catch your dog misbehaving, and as soon as you see him
responding, praise him with kind words and lots of affection.
Effective trainers always recommend to tug on the
leash in order to stop your dog's lunging, jumping, barking excessively,
snapping or when your dog refuses to obey a command he already
knows. Holding tightly onto your dog's leash isn't training. That's
just restraining and any moron can do that.
You'll always know when you see
a master in action.
They make it seem so easy, when it isn't easy at all. In a way,
their mad skills and talent would totally mesmerize you.
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You can't help but notice how smooth their technique
flows as you watch your dog perform at his best, right before
your eyes. This again proves that they have years of hands-on
experience. Sorry. But reading a bunch of dog books or training
a few of your friends' and neighbors' dogs on weekend won’t
do it. These folks have trained if not thousands, at least hundreds
of dogs over the years which is why they have the confidence AND
the skill to back it up.
Their uncanny ability goes far beyond skill and
knowledge, and sometimes even reaches to an instinctual level.
And there is something funny about instinct, like class, you either
have it or you don’t.
9. They Let You Experiment with Different Training Tools
Here's an interesting experiment: Gather the best-of-the-best
dog gurus in the world, but take away all of their training tools.
This means no collars, no harnesses, no leashes, no treats, no
tennis balls, and certainly no shock collars. They might as well
be totally naked. Then throw in some unruly dogs and let’s
see what happens. Trust me. There wouldn’t be much even
these dog wizards could do. Now, unless one of them possesses
some kind of super mind-control power like Criss Angel, which
you'll agree that he is a memorable performer. Even the almighty
Cesar Millan needs his tennis racket while dealing with unpredictable
and snappy dogs.
Think about this for a moment. Could you do your current job
without your pen, paper, phone, vehicle, computer or certain tools
and equipment? Some of you probably could, but I'm sure that you'll
agree certain tools do make our jobs much easier. In fact, without
some, it would be like jumping into a time machine and traveling
hundred years back. So the use of proper tools and technology
always improve the speed and quality of our work. It is no different
when it comes to achieving certain tasks in regards to training,
controlling or managing your dog's different needs.
These trainers will educate and actually let you try different
collars so you see for yourself which ones gets your dog’s
attention and which do not. They always adapt, think outside the
box and their main objective is making sure that “you”
are the one who ultimately can control your dog in ANY situation.
If a certain tool doesn't even seem to faze your dog when you
REALLY need it to, what’s the point of using it?
That is like buckling your seat belt to a clip that barely holds,
or even worse, there is no clip and you just throw the stupid
belt over your shoulder holding it under your armpit so you fool
the cops. But who are you really fooling?
Now take a close look at your training tool that you are walking
and training your dog with. Does it stop your dog from misbehaving
around total strangers? How about around other dogs that your
pooch hasn't met? Don't forget the cats, kids, joggers or moving
cars. I’m sure you’ll agree that most of the distractions
that I just described fall under our day-to-day routines.
Now take a close look at your training tool that you are using
with your dog. Does it stop your dog from misbehaving around total
strangers? What about around other dogs that your pooch may not
know? Don't forget the cats, kids, joggers or moving cars. I’m
sure you’ll agree that most of the distractions that I just
described fall under our day-to-day distractions.
Sadly, the majority of trainers and dog schools
limit you to only one particular tool. A tool that might work
on a small dog that isn’t too dominant or too aggressive,
but hoping or assuming that same tool would get you the same results
with a much larger, stronger or far more determined dog is just
not reality. In fact, it reminds me of bringing a knife to a gun
fight. Unless you are some kind of super ninja, like me, you won’t
stand a chance. My ninja moves evolve around the TV remote. I
have all the buttons memorized and can work them blindfolded while
munching on a steamy hot pocket.
Most trainers stubbornly refuse to let you experiment with different
tools. Not allowing you to be diverse just doesn't make sense
to me, especially if you've already followed the trainer’s
advice with little or no success.
So the fair thing to do for me is to leave all options on the
table and let "you" decide. Here's what will make you
even more mad: The majority of trainers are very familiar with
other training tools on the market, but they keep you in the dark.
You must find what works best for you and “this dog”--not
what worked on your previous dogs, your friends' dogs or even
the rest of the dogs in some obedience class. We are all different
and so are our canine friends.
Diverse experts help you find the one training tool that is a
perfect match for your strength, mobility, limitation and let’s
not forget—your overall expectations from your dog. They
also put a lot of thoughts and consideration into your dog's size,
speed, strength, intelligence and determination.
I’m a believer in having a strong technique and a positive
attitude, but having a useful tool that is the perfect choice
for a certain dog and certain owner also plays a significant role
in a trainer's success.
10. They Never Give Up and Have a "Diverse
Method"
The best and the brightest never believe that your dog cannot
be trained. Their mentality is completely different from average
trainers. They focus more on HOW they can help you train or rehabilitate
your dog. This means they are willing to explore different methods
if and when necessary. To adapt, improvise, think outside the
box and push the envelope, is what they are famous for.
I’ve enjoyed reading dozens of books on obedience, behavior
modification, canine psychology and breed characteristics. However,
what I found was that learning from books is definitely helpful,
but I also believe that, “If you do everything from reading
books, then it could also mean that you can’t do much outside
the book.” After all, that’s how we grow and push
boundaries, don't we? It's often our own individual uniquenss
and creativity!
In conclusion, there are many trainers out there, but only a
few masters. These ten elements are the true qualities of the
legendary experts in the business. Such greatness is extremely
hard to come by. As I mentioned earlier, I believe that they make
up less than one percent out there.
And yes, the best always has a price tag. I’ve met and
worked with many in person and found them to be amazing. They
were excellent trainers AND amazing instructors. They were confident
and sometimes even a bit cocky—but they usually backed it
up with their skill and knowledge.
This reminds me of another thing I always say: "It's good
to be humble, unless you are pressed against the wall and only
then should you be able to crush your competition." Or, Act
strong when you're weak and weak when you're strong." The
last quote is from a boxing movie, Gladiator.
Most of these individuals have dedicated years of their lives
making a difference by helping pet owners and dog trainers. Remember,
there is a big difference between having a well-behaved dog and
possessing the technique, knowledge, patience and, most important,
the passion to teach it to others.
These experts have mastered all ten of these principles, which
is why they are incredibly successful and come highly recommended.
If you are a trainer reading this and your goal is to become
one of the greatest, study and master all ten of these traits.
That is if you flat out refuse to settle for “good,”
“better,” or even “excellent,” but prefer
to become one of the greatest icons, dog phenomena, and a true
legend, you will have to excel in every one of these qualities.
Sorry. There is no other way to become as one of the best and
brightest in the world of dogs .
In a nutshell, what makes these trainers brilliant is their versatility
and ability to mix different methods in a smart, effective and
a nonviolent fashion. Their main goal is to custom fit an approach
that works best for you and your pooch.
Is there a legend in your town? Maybe, maybe not. Most of my
clients travel hours to work with me. Some fly me to their city
or country because they weren't impressed by any of their local
“trainers.” Or the so-called expert told them that
their dog was hopeless.
What is my goal in all this? To impress people and most importantly,
to give them a real hope. I love what I do and am on top of my
game. Best of all, I welcome the challenge and am willing to help
you with your dog’s needs.
Written by International Trainer and Dog
Psychologist, Kevin "The Dog Prodigy"
Taken from Kevin's Book,
"Hidden Secrets Behind Dog Training"
Written by International
Trainer and Dog Psychologist, Kevin "The Dog Prodigy"
Taken from Kevin's Book,
"Hidden Secrets Behind Dog Training"
We all die. The goal isn't to live forever, the goal is
to create something that will.”
--Chuck Palahniuk
This Book Gives You a Totally
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1. Yourself - Your thoughts, beliefs and perception
of your current and previous dogs.
2. Your Dog - Why and how your dog thinks and responds in different
scenarios.
3. Your Method – Unravel the strengths and weaknesses of
different techniques.
4. Your Tools – Which training tools work and which eventually
stop working.
5. Your Trainer - Their philosophy, expertise, expectations and
limitations.
6. The Dog Training Industry – How to use the system to
your advantage.
It took ten years of hard work, intense research, and studying
thousands of cases
to write this book. My Mission:
To Find All the Reasons Why Dogs Didn't Thrive to Their Fullest
Potential.
I was shocked to find that the "real cause" had very
little to do with the dogs' age, breed,
size, intelligence, history, or even personality, but had everything
to do with the
“human element.”
Dog owners and even dog trainers from all around the globe were
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this had a tremendous affect on their beliefs, attitude, technique,
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Book's Description:
This book takes a deeper look at modern dog training and canine
psychology while it also introduces you to the next level and
the future of training and canine behavior modification—“The
Diverse Method.”
Think about it. If there are more than four hundred
different breeds of dogs in this world, how can they possibly
all respond to only one way of training? Have you ever considered
that fact? You see, every dog was bred specifically for a purpose.
So for any expert to argue that you can train EACH AND EVERY ONE
with just Positive Reinforcement or Negative Reinforcement show
their arrogance, lack of experience and diversity.
The secret is to follow a "Diverse Reinforcement"
because, just as with humans, dogs don't always respond to a strictly
positive or negative approach. Here's where it gets more interesting.
All dog trainers know this, but don't or can't teach it in their
training method.
!!! Now
Did I Get Your Attention??? !!!
Look, you are definitely NOT going to be safe, smart or successful
if you rely on just one way of training as a crutch. The key to
greatness is to arm yourself with different training techniques
that will prepare you for ANY dog, despite their age, size, strengths,
intelligence, past history or personality. Again, I am talking
about being "Diverse" because no method and no training
tool is guaranteed to work in every situation and on every dog.
That's just a fact! This is one of those rare books that will
make you smile, make you laugh, make you think and even challenge
you to push yourself far beyond your leash or your bag of treats.
It is filled with life lessons along with my incredible journey
with dogs from all walks of life.
If you are the sensitive type, you may get a few lumps in your
throat. I've spent a decade writing this book, which inspired
me to learn something new from every dog, every owner and every
trainer I've encountered. So, in a way, the book has grown with
me.
My hope is that when you finish it, both you and your dog will
be able to communicate with one another much more effectively.
--Kevin "The Dog Prodigy"
Master Dog Trainer / Author
About the Author:
Kevin Salem is considered to be a prominent philosopher and one
of the brightest minds in the world of dog training. It’s
hard to paint Kevin’s image with the same brush as others,
as his unique way of "Diverse Method" and philosophy,
makes him very distinct.
Ever since he was young, Kevin has been able to relate and communicate
with dogs in a very special way. You know when you meet a natural.
We’ve all seen one. These individuals are rarely taught,
but rather born. In over two decades of working with different
breeds, he has successfully trained well over 10,000 dogs worldwide,
earning him the nickname,“The Dog Prodigy.”
He is one of those rare experts in his field who has the knowledge
and the expertise to accept challenging cases that the majority
of dog schools simply don’t want to deal with. We are referring
to “red zone dogs,” and those already given up on
by many trainers, veterinarians and even animal behaviorists.
He is proud of saving hundreds of these dogs from abandonment,
shelters, or worse, euthanasia.
Kevin gained his experience from studying and practicing different
methods of training. To expand his knowledge even further, he
also compared the strengths and weaknesses of different theories
from more than a hundred books on dog training, dog behavior,
and canine psychology.
Mr. Salem currently operates his school, Dog Secrets, where
he offers house calls not only throughout the US, but globally.
You may also send your dog to his most popular program, the Doggie
Boot Camp.
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--Kevin "The Dog Prodigy"
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