10 Biggest
Dog Training Lies
that Even "Trainers" Believe!
- Chapter One -
From the Book "Hidden
Secrets Behind Dog Training"
(A Game-Changer in Dog Psychology!)
Just by correcting your most common mistakes and exposing these
lies, you’ll put yourself in the top 1% of effective dog
owners in the world. You may find this hard to believe, but the
majority of dog trainers, dog schools, and many dog publications
are being paid to mislead you.
Here's just one of their lies: Imagine how much
money the dog treat companies are making by pushing the use of
food in your training. After all, you've been brainwashed to use
treats to make your dog sit, stay, heel, come or lie down. They
also rely heavily on bribery for teaching tricks, agility, socialization,
potty training, crate training, to get your dog to look at you,
or even to let go of an object. As you can see, this
lie alone has gone far beyond a typical 6-8 week training class.
And folks, that's just the tip of the iceberg.
If you really want to cut down on your training time and see
a significant difference in your dog's command response, stop
following or believing these lies.
Biggest Lie #1:
Your Dog Was Born to "Please" You No Matter
What
TRUTH: It is actually
the poor owners who are pleasing and spoiling their dogs.
Think about this for a moment. If this myth were really
true, you wouldn't be reading this right now. Sorry, but we rarely
run into pleasing dogs. And here's how I'll—
Debunk This Myth Once and
For All!
Let’s say your dog starts barking, lunging, growling, mouthing
or jumping up on you or your guests. Does she quit with a simple
“NO,” or do you find yourself telling her to stop
over and over again? Hmm... she’s not pleasing you there,
is she? Or how about when your dog is constantly charging at a
cat, another dog, or maybe at the mailman? You yell out commands
and even try to physically control him. Does he listen
to you then? I’m guessing the answer is still NO.
Look, your dog isn’t dumb and clearly sees your
frustration! It is obvious from your shouting, your demeanor,
and your desperate attempts to get him under control. He clearly
senses that you are upset by his unruly behavior, yet he STILL
flat out ignores you. Aha! Once again, you can’t call him
a pleaser, can you?
If I asked some of your friends and relatives, I’m sure
they would all would agree that your dog loves you dearly,
but for crying out loud, let’s not confuse that with respect
or compliance. (I could also fall in love with a
hot stripper; but to actually respect her, is a different story.)
Besides, if all dogs are truly pleasers,
then why do we have so many dog training books, dog trainers,
dog behaviorists and dog classes everywhere?
Think again, if this myth were really true, don’t
you think that everybody would end up with a perfect angel with
no bad manners whatsoever? No matter what the circumstances and
regardless of how tempting the distraction, dogs would respond
to their owners in a heartbeat and everybody would be singing
kumbaya or hallelujah.
You’d see pet owners calling out each other, “Hey
you guys, how’s Roscoe doing?” One would laugh and
respond, “He’s such a pleaser, that one! And how’s
little Daisy coming along?” You’d hear, “Man,
we never even trained that stinker and she listens to us everywhere
and every time. It’s unbelievable. In
fact, we just nicknamed her Lassie.”
Take it from someone who does this for a living: The majority
of dogs don't respond to make you proud or happy. (They do
so because of a treat, a toy, praise, or to avoid some sort of
consequence. Again, those are the facts!)
Biggest Lie #2:
Training Could Break Your Dog's Spirit or Ruin His Personality
TRUTH: Abusing
your leadership breaks the dog's spirit, not balanced, smart training!
When you catch yourself or a trainer yelling, hitting
or hanging your poor dog off his feet in order to make him submit
or obey, you are definitely being abusive.
I doubt that everybody in your household is on the
same page when it comes to training or disciplining the dog. Even
when you tried enforcing some rules and boundaries, you most likely
found yourself in conflict with the one who babies the
dog. “Leave him alone. I just want him to be happy,”
is what the spoiler will tell you.
Those who received their masters in spoiling always defend
and justify the dog's unruliness. Ironically, when it comes
right down to it, the same wonderful dog won’t
even respect or obey THEM. So I wonder who’s happy now?
Again, being harsh and abusive is what breaks a dog’s spirit—not
enforcing simple rules and commands!
Certain training tools such as the choke collar, prong collar,
remote training collar, a head halter or even a clicker can also
be misused. I once noticed a dog that was afraid of the sound
of a clicker. The owner kept clicking it and the poor dog kept
jumping back and cowering. But here's—
Why I Never Really Clicked
with Clicker Training:
Doesn’t it make more sense to rely on our voice from
the get-go to mark a command or a behavior instead of the sound
of click-click? But that's clicker training for you. So unless
you are mute or have three hands: One to hold the clicker, one
to hold the treats, and another to hold the leash, there is no
need for a clicking device. (There is an old Texan saying, "You
can't ride two horses with one ass." In this case, you are
dealing with THREE!)
Here's another fact that most clicker trainers hide from you:
In order to walk or train a dog, you HAVE TO rely either
on a leash, a collar, or a harness. Again, those tools are mandatory!
Can you make the same kind of argument about a cheesy little box
that makes a clicking sound? No, you cannot!
It is nearly impossible to stop a determined dog from pulling
toward people, other dogs, kids, or going after cats with a bunch
of treats in one hand and a clicker in another. But with a proper
collar and a leash, you’d increase your chances dramatically.
I've seen people scream at their dogs and they were still
ignored the minute their pooch spotted another dog. How can a
stupid clicker stand a chance there? Oh, wait. This method is
also popular among dolphin and chicken trainers. And I know exactly
why: Try putting a leash on a dolphin or a cock and see what happens.
I honestly thought that the reason clicker
training is popular must be because of Karen Pryor. So I did some
major research; and was very disappointed to find that it isn't
popular at all. Not even one bit.
It's just a new way. Folks, I don't know about you, but I'd rather
go with an old method. After all, it is tried and true and has
a solid track record. Not all new things are better or
even smarter these days. Again, using a clicker is ideal for teaching
your dog some cute tricks. That's all.
For thousands of years humans have been able to teach dogs commands
by voice! This is one of those facts that is not even
worth looking up. Click, click. BOOOM. Now take that (!), clicker
trainers.
Biggest Lie
#3:
You Can't
Teach a Dog Much if He's Too Young or Too Old
TRUTH:
Forget training for a moment; no dog is ever too young or too
old to learn right from wrong or what is acceptable and
what isn’t. So it doesn’t really matter if your dog
is a stubborn old grouch or a naughty puppy. By following a diverse
approach, you’ll increase your chances of success whether
you are dealing with an 8-week-old pup or an 18-year-old dog.
Again, ANY dog can learn to follow your rules and
respond to commands, regardless of age, size, history or temperament.
Yes, even your dog!
Besides, do you really want to put up with your
dog’s bad habits for months or even years? So just
because of his age, your dog is getting away with peeing or pooping
everywhere, jumping up on your guests, lunging, snapping, barking
nonstop, terrorizing your neighbors, and even going for serious
bites. Sounds like insanity, doesn’t it?
Bad habits are inexcusable for a dog of ANY age!
Based on my personal experience in working with not hundreds,
but thousands of dogs, I’ve come to the conclusion that
there is no unwanted behavior that cannot be reduced or even eliminated
no matter how young or how old a dog may be.
Biggest Lie #4:
Train with Treats and Your Dog Will Listen
Perfectly Forever and Ever After
TRUTH: There are
three main reasons that justify using treats with your dog:
1. To gain your dog’s trust and confidence—especially
if he’s shy, timid or aggressive.
2. To teach your dog some cute tricks. Treats and tricks always
go hand-in-hand.
3. To prepare your dog for some serious obedience competitions.
Do yourself a favor and read those three again.
Now, be honest. Do you really care about any of them?
Don't feel bad; a large number of pet owners do NOT relate to
any of those three reasons.
In fact, just about everyone that I’ve met or worked with
so far wanted a well-behaved and a happy dog.
People don’t want a soldier, a ninja, or some acrobatic
dog that can jump through hoops with four Frisbees in its mouth.
And unless your pooch came from a shelter, where some of them
have not been properly socialized or were abused, it is highly
unlikely that you are dealing with a terrified dog in
your household.
Your dog should sit, stay, or lie down because you
tell him to. That is why it's called "obedience," which
originated from the word, OBEY—not the word, "Bribe"!
Even the majority of us we were raised with no bribery
and still love and respect our parents.
!!!
BUYER BEWARE !!!
Don't Fall for Using Treats SCAM!
Would you still work for your company if they stopped paying
you? I didn’t think so! Sadly, you’ve been misled
that since your dog doesn’t accept money, you should pay
him with yummy treats. But, once you phase out those goodies,
it is not any different than your boss cutting down on your paycheck
or worse, NOT pay you at all. And if you own one of those dogs
that is easily-distracted or simply refuses to obey; their recommendation
is to NOT feed him that day or pack some tastier treats with you.
If this logic sounds ridiculous to you, it's because
it is. Come on! How many more treats would it take
for your dog to eventually listen to you, and not because
he saw a doggy biscuit in your hand?
I am now convinced more than ever that relying
strictly on food for every task is the biggest scam in today's
dog training. It's not even fair to call it training.
It is pure manipulation! Folks, they are trying to make sense
out of nonsense.
Do Me a Favor. Answer
This Question:
Would You Rather
Use Praise, Leadership, Psychology and a “Diverse Method,”
or Pull Out Hot Dogs, Meatballs, Beef Jerky and Dried Liver?
You Always Have a Choice!
It really doesn’t take much skill or talent
to constantly bribe a dog with treats and call it obedience training.
Again, this is just bribery in disguise! Don't forget; the dog
training industry has been lying to us for years, so they are
not going to stop just now.
Haven’t you heard of or known someone who was able to
train their dog without the use of treats? Think back.
A family member, neighbor, relative, co-worker, or maybe that
someone was YOU!
Whether you succeeded with the help of a trainer or all on your
own, what matters is this: You were able to train that dog without
carrying a pouch of dried liver with you everywhere! It was
all done by plenty of praise and a solid technique! I’m
also willing to bet that dog was one of the most well-behaved
and trained dogs that you’ve ever owned. Here's the best
part—
Nobody Made You Beat
or Bribe that Dog to See Results!
Folks, this is not rocket science. It's simple, common sense
dog training: You ultimately want your training to stick! But
right now, the only sticky things are probably your fingers from
all that cheese or cut up hot dogs that you lure your dog with.
Even worse, many of you are still hoping that your dog
will someday obey flawlessly, without looking for munchies in
your hands or just because you snapped your fingers.
What blows my mind is some owners go as far as saying “please”
to their dogs. Now, that’s a classic: “Sit, please.”
Yeah. As if saying please even works with people. Be
that polite with those who deserve and have truly earned your
love and respect. Never ever say “please” to ANY dog!
Okay? Please.
Your overall demeanor, or as Cesar would say, your ENERGY, turns
into "wussy energy" as soon as please comes
out of your mouth. (I’ve dedicated chapter four to the pros
and cons of using treats in your training. There are hundreds
of books out there that skillfully misled millions of dog owners
like you around the globe. Just make sure that you read it barefoot.
Because it will blow your socks off.)
And for those of you who still doubt or curse me while
packing your yummy tidbits for your next bribery lesson, I say:
Do your dog a favor and get him a treat thrower. Oops, actually,
it is a treat “launcher”! It promises to shoot those
treats at your dog up to twenty feet away. Amazing! Twenty freaking
feet! Hey, you don’t want that smart dog of yours to figure
out that they’re coming from YOU, now. (Forget global warming.
It's raining meatballs, everybody!)
Did I mention that this treat thrower doesn’t take batteries,
is dishwasher safe, AND Pavlov-approved? I know, I know, some
of you may think I’m making this up. Be my guest; Google
Booda Thrower. Gosh. I never get it right. I meant: Treat Launcher.
(Once you find it on Amazon, it says: Customers who bought this
product also bought a stool with a hangman's knot.)
Now if you still insist on giving treats
to your dog, you'll be far more effective when you do so at the
very end of your training session and NOT before each command.
That is how you can be rational, practical and
natural. Those three words are very powerful and definitely worth
repeating: Rational, Practical and Natural—NOT Steak, Pepperoni
and Sausage.
Biggest Lie #5:
To Socialize Your Pooch, You Must Take it to Dog Parks!
TRUTH: If you want
your dog to bully or get bullied by other dogs, take
it to dog parks. It's that simple. Folks, this is where even the
nicest dogs pick up many bad habits from other dogs that
are hard to break even for the most experienced trainers.
I’m referring to what unruly dogs
do: barking excessively, marking everywhere, humping every dog,
lunging nonstop or playing too roughly. If you happen to have
a male dog, he may soon learn to lift his leg up inside your home
or others’ to mark his territory. Again, they learn these
lovely things from every dog that they study in dog parks.
Also, going to dog parks is a lot like facing a
“mystery opponent.” You just don’t know which
dog is friendly, healthy, fully trained, vaccinated or even spayed/neutered.
Heck, forget the dogs. You’ll have a blast figuring out
the lovely owners who come with their weird reasoning
skills and you swear that they belong in Common Sense Institute.
These folks always justify their dogs’ uncontrollable
behavior. And it’s rarely their dog at fault, but
always someone else’s.
Even if Your Dog is a Sweetheart, All it Takes is Just One
Unpredictable Dog to Pick on Yours
and Attack it for No Reason.
I’ve seen some nasty dog attacks where the owner of the
dog who started the fight snuck out of the dog park leaving
a bloody and beaten dog behind. Sadly, the dog that was mauled
could now lose total trust in his owner. He may also become fearful
or aggressive towards certain breeds, or even worse, toward ALL
dogs for the rest of his life. Some dogs join the action every
time they see a fight or a little scuffle. And some take mental
notes, and will act aggressive as soon as they spot other dogs
on walks or at any pet clinic.
Here’s another way of looking at it: Haven’t
you met someone who didn’t like you, or even picked on you
for no reason? I'm sure you can think of that relative, neighbor,
co-worker or some blogger. It's not much different when it comes
to the canine mindset in dog parks.
There will be dogs that will keep pushing your dog’s
buttons, picking on him over and over again, until he can’t
or won’t take it anymore. And that’s when you might
see his “Cujo” side—a side of him that you’ve
never seen or didn’t think he had in him. Now, can you honestly
blame your dog for defending himself in this situation?
If you take a moment to look around, you'll notice
that half of the owners are wrapped up in their own world. Everyone's
chatting, texting, tweeting, reading, wearing a headphone, spacing
out, or just playing dumb and blind when it comes to their
dog causing chaos.
Look, you know your dog better than anyone. If you
clearly see that he isn’t yet comfortable with other dogs
or might even be terrified of them, bringing him to a dog park
is only going to make things worse. Take dogs sniffing one another:
In the dog world, when one sniffs the other’s rear, it is
very similar to our handshake. But the truth is, some of these
dogs aren’t ready for a handshake or maybe they just don’t
want their happy place sniffed yet. Is that wrong? Haven’t
you met someone who didn’t want to shake your hand and left
you hanging?
It's even worse for dogs that are scared, timid
or don't want to play too roughly. You always find these pooches
glued to their owners. Some show their stress by shivering, cowering,
barking and hiding under benches. If you could read those thoughts,
they'll be, “Mommy save me! All these dogs are trying to
take a chunk out of me!” And the dogs that are doing the
chasing are thinking, “What is wrong with this
one? Why won’t he let us sniff him down there? Just stand
still so we can all sniff your booty and it will be over soon.
Woof!”
As you can see, taking your pooch to dog parks
is a gamble where the odds stack up against you. There are always
those owners that argue, “My dog looooooves the dog park.”
Sorry, but that’s like saying, “My kids love to have
pizza every day. We kill pizza for breakfast, lunch, dinner AND
even snacks.” (We all know that's not healthy and you need
to invite me too. Oh, according to our school’s criteria,
Pizza is now considered to be a vegetable. Hmm… who knew
that I was actually born a vegan?)
Bottom line, by taking your four-legged friend
to dog parks, you are taking a huge risk on your dog either getting
attacked, learning bad habits, or being picked on by other dogs.
And if you own a real dominant dog, it is just a matter of time
when he WILL meet his match. Don't forget; no matter how tough
and undefeated your dog may be, there are always going to be those
folks with much bigger, stronger, faster and younger dogs out
there.
Biggest
Lie #6:
Any Group Class Can Solve
Your Dog’s Bad Habits or Behavioral Issues
TRUTH: If you carefully
study your dog’s behavior pattern, you’ll notice that
the root cause of his bad habits all originated from
your living room, the backyard and your neighborhood.
If you don't believe me, just think of your dog's
barking, jumping up, play-biting, leash pulling, over-protectiveness,
or when he is fighting the neighbor’s dog behind the fence.
How about stealing food off counters, bolting out or scratching
doors? Don’t forget the challenge of potty training, terrorizing
your cat, fighting with your other dog, or embarrassing you when
you face just one dog on your walks, let alone a group
of ten. Be fair with your expectations. How can these concerns
be resolved in any group setting? Here's—
!!!
Another Big Flaw About
Group Classes !!!
They are not part of our daily routine! After all,
when was the last time you ran into a crowd of people standing
in a circle desperately trying to make their dogs obey a bunch
of commands? Never!
You most likely run into people walking or jogging
with their dog, waiting at the vet’s with their dog, or
when passing down the aisle of a pet store. Now, that is real-life!
Let's not leave out the dogs that antagonize yours by barking
and charging nonstop as you walk near their fence.
To put it bluntly, you need to be ready for those
owners with poor technique and poor judgment. You see, some of
these lovely folks walk their dogs completely off-leash. Now there
is a recipe for disaster. Hopefully you have a tight grip on your
leash. (If not, the movie Dumb and Dumber comes to mind.)
It doesn't really matter whether someone is walking,
jogging, or being dragged by their dog—what matters is YOU
must have control over your dog at all times. This applies
even when you are caught off guard with a loose dog that comes
out of nowhere. That's right. Your pooch should obey you without
losing its cool or lashing out at other dogs.
Unfortunately, park classes do NOT make you
“street-smart.” After all, who doesn't want to be
prepared for the real world?
I’m guessing that most of you have already tried some
type of group training. Hey, how can you turn down an eight week
deal for eighty bucks? But, here's something interesting that
you'll notice immediately with these sweet deals: Your dog could
obey you marvelously there, but act like an idiot at home.
Or, he may sporadically listen at home, but never really pay much
attention around dogs.
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Picture this: You have your dog’s graduation diploma hanging
on the wall. You went out of your way to find a cute frame with
little paws and bones around it. My gosh, it even has that button
that you push and you hear, WOOF-WOOF! But right next to it, your
guest is getting tackled and scratched up by your crazy dog.
That’s Boomer for ya. He sure aced that pet store class
with flying colors and got his diploma all right. But you can’t
get him to stop his jumping, barking, play-biting and crotch-sniffing
for the life of you. (Hmm... let me guess: Positive training got
you negative outcome!)
Trainers who teach these classes, even if they truly are on
top of their game can't do much with so many owners. How can they?
Everybody comes with their own goals and agendas. That's
the undeniable fact.
And if you really think about it, even teaching your dog the
"obedience commands" such as Sit, Stay, Down, Heel,
and Come are best taught in your home or in private first.
This is because you are eliminating all minor and major distractions
that could stall your training progress.
Sadly, the majority of dog owners out there will never get their
hands on such information and most "group trainers"
never reveal this. Now, if you are smart or curious enough
to figure this out on your own, great. If not, be my guest; keep
standing and walking in circle for eight weeks straight while
giving your dog treats for even looking at you.
Ask others who have tried such classes. Even better, see
for yourself whether their dogs are considered "trained"
to your standards. Trust me; you'll be disappointed. And even
THOSE owners will agree that it was a long process that got them
poor results.
Another
Factor that Trainers Hide from You...
Can Everyone in Your Family Attend These
Classes?
Let’s face it; most people cannot get everyone
in their household to commit for eight consecutive weeks. Plus,
this is how you could end up with a dog that listens to one
person, and totally ignores everyone else in your family.
Sure, it might be your dog that also becomes everyone
else’s headache.
Dog owners have no choice but to multitask in these situations.
They desperately do their best to keep their eyes on the trainer
while constantly pulling the leash and telling the dog to sit...sit...sit!
All of this is happening while other dogs are charging, barking,
whining, growling or manage to get loose from their owners. WOW.
It sure sounds like a lot of fun... for the dogs!
If you carefully study all successful trainers, you'll
notice an interesting pattern. They all follow a curriculum that
consists of: The learning stage, the correction, the distraction-proofing
and finally, the maintenance. Ironically, many trainers and just
about every dog training book that I've read, completely left
out phase two. That's right. They always assume the "correction"
and the "maintenance" component don't matter much.
Let me give you a different analogy: We all know that losing
a few pounds isn’t easy—but keeping them off is even
more challenging that requires strong discipline. Staying
consistent in the fourth stage of your dog's training is a lot
like keeping those extra pounds off. It is in the maintenance
that many of you get lazy and fall off the wagon. It’s unfortunate;
since this is when you reach your ultimate goal. Stay on top of
it; and you’ll enjoy owning an obedient and balanced dog
for life.
Now, if you ignore the importance of such principles, and
still decide to enroll your dog in a group class, this is
what I predict when I look into my crystal ball: You will be teaching
your dog new commands, constantly correcting him, and getting
louder when he can’t or won’t ignore all
the new dogs, new people, new location, new smells, or any other
unexpected distractions and noises that you were never prepared
for. Is this fair?
Don't get me wrong; I totally agree that dogs need to get socialized.
But it's wise to do so around one or two dogs first, before joining
a group of untrained dogs and novice owners.
From observing and conducting many classes over the years, I've
noticed that group lessons are ideal for polishing your
dog’s commands.
The last thing that bothered me the most about the trainers
was that difficult dogs were always ignored or pushed
to the side. Some of them weren't even allowed to participate.
So the poor owners with their unruly dogs were humiliated and
embarrassed. Even the trainers teaching the class
had no clue how to control some of these dogs.
As soon as they started their barking, whimpering, lunging, growling
or the goofy dog that wants to play with every dog out
there, the trainer gave the owner dirty looks. The look that meant:
You must be the dumbest pet owner on the planet for owning such
a dog. Here's another shocking truth—
Owning a Difficult Dog
= You'll Be Ignored or Asked
to Leave!
I’ve seen trainers who conduct these classes shout at
people, “Hey, get your dog under control!” or “We
can’t have that in our class!” Well, duh? Why do you
think they enrolled with you in the first place? Einstein! If
they had Lassie on leash, they wouldn’t be there now, would
they?
So ultimately, it was just easier for those folks to just drop
out of the class. And some of these morons had the audacity to
tell them that it was “the dog” that flunked the course.
Oh come on. It doesn’t take a genius to figure out that
it wasn’t the dog or the owner, but actually the
trainer who failed to deliver results OR your refund.
Don't get me wrong; there is absolutely nothing wrong with trying
a group class. It's just you will get far more out of it if you
build a solid foundation from your home first. Let's
face it. Most of you have no foundation whatsoever. It is all
about the fundamentals.
Biggest Lie #7:
Before Giving Commands, Make Your Dog
Look at You OR Your Hand Signal
TRUTH:
Your dog is perfectly capable of responding to your voice
without even making eye contact or the need to follow your
fancy hand signals.
Let me ask you a question: Would you rather have
your dog look at you or listen to you? If you answered,
both. I’ll ask you again: Which is MORE important, making
eye contact or listening? Then do yourself and your dog
a favor and don’t drag out your training by saying, "Watch
me… watch me… watch me," before each command.
That’s nagging and it will stop working very fast!
The majority of dog schools don't bother telling you this, but
you only need your dog’s eyes glued to you if you want to
prepare him for obedience competitions. As I mentioned earlier,
most of you would love a well-mannered and responsive
pet—not a super-trained soldier that wins you a bunch of
titles, ribbons and trophies.
Biggest Lie #8:
Don’t
Ever Say "NO!" to Your Dog!
Instead, Try, "Uh," "Uh-uh," or Some Other
Noises
TRUTH: Your dog
must stop dead in his tracks the second he hears the word, “NO!”
In fact, it shouldn’t even matter whether it comes from
you, your spouse, your kids, a guest, or your vet. NO means NO!
Maybe you've been somewhat successful in getting your
dog’s attention with funny terms such as: “Uh,”
“Uh-uh,” or my favorite of all—“Baaaah,”
(Doesn’t that one remind you of something you’d hear
from a Klingon in some old Star Trek movie?)
Folks, your friends, relatives, kids, neighbors and even those
Klingons will laugh at you and have a hard time remembering those
funny noises. So stop the insanity! Be honest. When you are out
in public, and you catch your pooch misbehaving, can you picture
yourself literally growling, yelping or barking at your
dog to get his attention?
You read that correctly; many trainers these days recommend that
whenever your dog nips at your hands and feet, scream like a hurt
dog. Their logic is: Hey, that's what dogs do to stop one another,
so why shouldn't we? But wait a minute; you are NOT a dog! Am
I the only voice of reason here?
Even that example depends on that particular dog: So
if it's a gentle dog, he might stop or play nicely as soon as
he sees the other dog yelping in pain. But this approach, this
theory, or should I say, this nonsense, will NOT work if it is
a human being who’s doing the squealing. Sorry.
Your dog knows too well that you didn't turn into some yuppy puppy
and could bite you even harder.
Besides, by using your high-pitched voice mimicking a dog in pain,
you'll confuse your dog that you are actually trying to play
with him. Think about it. Many of you use the SAME tone when
you babytalk to your dog. So how would he differentiate when you
are really hurt and upset and want him to stop or when
you are just playing? (Your dog will think of you as
a giant, warm, soft and animated squeak toy and will act even
worse.)
There is a dog training franchise with the name “bark”-something.
Oh, what the heck, let’s call them “Bark Bastards.”
They’re the ones who recommend that you actually bark at
your dog. I get many of their clients and that’s one of
the first things they tell me. (What boggles my mind is that they
are one of the biggest dog training franchises in the world; yet
to this day, I still haven't seen ANY of their clients full on
barking at their dog out in public.)
Besides, doesn't saying or even shouting “NO!” come
naturally to all of us? Then let’s not sugarcoat things.
“NO” means—“NO” and your dog should
stop whatever he’s doing the second he hears it any
place and at any time.
Oh, before I forget, there are also those trainers that tell
you when your dog bites or jumps up, clawing you with his long
nails, that you should say or yell, "Ouch-Ouch"! Last
time I checked, Ouch," is NOT a correction either.
Then how can—

Cesar Millan Tame ANY Dog with
his, “Shhht”?
Are you The Dog Whisperer? I didn’t think
so! So leave that to Mr. Millan. He can pull it off and you can’t.
Although I have a great respect for all Dog Whisperers out there;
I don't do any whispering and I'm nobody's uncle. Be
honest; do you want me to whisper things to you or be loud and
clear in revealing my secrets? (Besides, everyone seems to be
screaming at their dogs these days. Nobody whispers. I have to
keep reminding people to keep it down, already.)
Biggest Lie #9:
Any Dog Can Be Trained with the
Same Training Tool
TRUTH: Most dogs
are just too smart, too strong, too big, too stubborn, too dominant,
too fast or even too unpredictable for their owners. Some are
a bit shy or sensitive. This is why narrowing it down to "only
one training tool" to train or control every breed
of dog is just not fair or realistic.
Have you ever wondered which training tools top
trainers swear by? The answer to this question may come as a surprise
to most of you, but they too rely on whatever that works best
for them and their dogs. So why should it be any different
with you?
Be smart. If the tool you are using at the moment stops working,
especially around hard-to-avoid distractions—try
a different one. After all, isn’t your main objective achieving
results? Then stop using something that doesn’t even seem
to faze your dog when you really need it to work. That’s
what I've been preaching all along: Diversity!
The Reality About Your "Current"
Training Tool
Can you
get your dog’s attention with it around other dogs, your
guests, a cat, the mailman or kids playing?
If not, don't embarrass yourself and use what truly WORKS!
You’ll soon be shocked to find that the majority
of dog trainers are close-minded and will never let you use
different tools. So ultimately, it will be up to you
to find what works and what doesn't. Here's the cold hard fact:
What works on one dog, or your previous dogs, doesn't
necessarily mean it will get you the same outcome with your current
dog. This again proves that all dogs are very unique.
Bottom line, use what works and most importantly,
use it properly and humanely. And trust me; people will
judge you and comment on it. All you can do is smile and say,
"Look, I know you mean well, but you just don't know much
about this dog. In fact, you are seeing him at his BEST right
now. Without this tool, we wouldn't even be having this conversation.
Because you would've been knocked down on the ground cursing and
kicking my dog off you." You could add: When he's really
distracted or focused on someone or something, this is the only
tool that seems to get his attention! Be firm and polite. (And
oh, don’t forget to smile. It’s usually contagious.)
Biggest Lie #10:
If Your Dog is Trained by an
Expert, He Will Only
Obey that "Trainer" and NOT You
TRUTH: Some of
the best-trained dogs in the world are trained without their owners.
If you doubt this, just research dogs for the blind, the handicapped,
drug-sniffing dogs, hunting, or even attack trained dogs. Guess
what? Just about every one of these dogs has been trained
without the owner’s day-to-day involvement.
You may wonder how in the world will the training
transfer to me, once the trainer is out of the picture?
Well, I could say the same thing about group classes or even private
dog trainers. Please tell me how can you guarantee that the dog
will respond to YOU once the trainer goes home? Why should
you believe them? Hmm...you never even thought of that,
did you?
Think
of Doggie Boot Camp as Getting a Liposuction.
You could spend all the money, lose the fat and look dazzling.
But if you revert back to your old ways, you’ll get back
to being ffffffffat. (Most people love that analogy!)
Here's Another Fact: It is much
easier to take over once the dog is already trained.
This way the expert doesn't have to train you AND your dog. (Half
the hard work is out of the way.)
Send away training can be a wise choice for those
of you who need to travel out of town, have a busy schedule, are
a mother-to-be, or might be in the process of moving or remodeling
your home. Perhaps you are one of those folks who prefer a
professional to do the hardest part for you. This way, all
you do is stay on top of things with the maintenance aspect
of the training. I don't see anything wrong with that.
Keep in mind that you need to be involved in your
dog’s training regardless! In fact, it will never
work without your interaction and commitment. It's just that some
get involved from the beginning to the end, and some prefer to
come in AFTER the dog is completely trained or rehabilitated.
Then—

Why Some Have that Nagging Doubt About Boot Camps?
A friend, family member, or a colleague may challenge you by saying:
Why don't you train your dog yourself?
That's easy. For the same reason we bother hiring an accountant,
a mechanic, a contractor, or even an attorney.
We do so because:
A- Not all of us have the slightest clue as to what we’re
doing.
B- Some of us who do know can’t always make the time for
it.
C- You can take out the guesswork on how your dog acts without
your presence.
The last reason helps me tremendously in getting
a clear picture of how dogs respond and react when they are NOT
in their comfort zone. (In other words, Mommy and Daddy aren't
around, come on, show me a different side of you.)
This is why it's smart to hire a pro that
boards and actually trains dogs for a living. And I am
not talking about some doggie daycare that charges you extra to
walk and play with your dog, and another day asks, "Oh, so
you want him trained too? No biggie. We'll have Marj train him
for ya. She'll get him goin after she's off her shift from Bob's
big boy and feedin all them chickens, spit."
By the same token, any bozo can teach your dog
to sit, roll over, give a paw, and bark for a cookie. I have people
ship their dogs to me from all over the country. And every one
of them, needed help with far more challenging issues than to
worry about sit, down, or play dead.
Elite Trainers Are Like Rare Gems!
I know some of you are rolling your eyes as you read this, but
do me a favor. Grab the phone book and flip through its pages.
Unless you live in a very obscure small town, you’ll easily
find hundreds of doctors, attorneys, plumbers and mechanics listed,
but only a very few dog trainers and dog schools. Now, just imagine
how many of those very few are considered good, average,
or just brilliant. I think I've made my point.
* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *
It took years even for ME to admit that starting with the dog
made much more sense. In fact, it was a smoother transition for
everyone. Folks, it's really not that complicated: Your dog goes
to rehab and gets trained or re-trained. Then comes the harder
part—training you and the rest of your family!
Back to those trainers who are against "Send-Away Dog Training"
or believe it is not as effective. I guarantee you that none of
these skeptics has ever tried to train a dog without the owner’s
initial involvement. Ask any of them if they ever owned a kennel
or worked with someone who operates a kennel or a doggie daycare
with a qualified trainer on staff. I'm curious to know
what their answer would be.
I'm betting money that their response would most likely be something
like: "NO. I have not; and I don’t need to. I just
know that drop-off dog training never works.” (Yeah,
suuuuuuure you do.) Frustrated owners who give my send-away training
a try can’t deny seeing a major difference in their pick
up lesson. (Some pay extra to fly me to them for a day or so in
order for me to demonstrate what I’ve taught their dog).
One thing is certain; you WILL see a changed dog in front
of you!
Again, the dog schools that doubt or bash “training/rehabilitating
without the owner” are usually the ones who never give this
concept an honest chance. Take sushi. I find it fascinating that
most people who hate sushi are also the ones who have never even
tasted it. I've tried that raw meat and love it to this
day.
In my earlier years, I too was just as skeptical and considered
myself a “boot camp basher.” But guess what? I had
to try it for myself in order to draw my own conclusions. And
frankly, it all started when I was rescuing and fostering dogs.
I found that they were much more adoptable once I showed off the
dog’s obedience ability and good manners. This was a no-brainer!
The level of success I had in finding these dogs new homes was
much higher after they were already trained.
When people saw the dog responding beautifully to sit, stay,
down, heel, come, and even more important than commands, the dog
had manners, things went smoother when it came to decision
time. After all, who wants a dog that jumps on everyone, barks
nonstop, play-bites, growls, lunges at other dogs and loses it
every time you have company over.
The reason it’s tough to get into my boot camp is because
it works. I often have a waiting list. I also realize
that people don’t hire an expert so their dog responds marvelously
to...a-hem, some handsome stranger.
Teaching and Educating YOU
to Get the Same Level of Compliance
From Your Dog is My Top Priority.
Ultimately, considering doggie boot camp also depends on your
dog, your schedule, your travel plans, your circumstances, your
expectations and, let’s not forget—your budget.
It's common knowledge that private lessons with a
top expert of any field will cost you more. After
all, we get what we pay for. But think about this for a minute:
What does is it really mean when we choose to pay more
for something, someone, or a service? As Dr. Phil would say, "This
can't be your first rodeo." So I'll assume you know what
I'm talking about here.
Now, Doesn't
"Expensive"
Usually
Get Us...
The very best, the most skilled, a true pro, experience, peace
of mind, convenience, luxury, reliability, durability, one-on-one
attention, efficiency, privacy, warranty, the rarest, the cleanest,
the healthiest, the tastiest, the newest, the fastest, the strongest,
the smartest, most comfortable, much safer, much bigger, the
most-admired or that WOW Factor? How about from top medical
treatment to top VIP treatment?
This isn't e Bay, a secondhand store, or some
garage sale where you could bargain or find killer deals. Not
everything is on sale everywhere we go. So you probably guessed
what's coming next by now: The same rule applies when
it comes to Getting Your Dog Trained
by a Real PRO!
Bottom line, when people pay top money,
they automatically expect to get top training. Sorry,
but going out of your way to get the early-bird special in some
park or your local pet store will NOT get you topnotch dog training.
I know it sounds like I'm being harsh here, but I'm also revealing
a harsh reality.
IMPORTANT: These
ten dog training lies are a very condensed version of what you
are about to read in pages of this book. From myths to mistakes,
to secrets and scams, I've exposed so much more. And as you
can tell by now, ALL of this information has been hidden from
you.
Now, don't take my word for it. I encourage you to research
and study all ten of these lies for yourself. Observe
different classes, visit a few dog parks, and talk to dog owners
who have actually tried various methods and different training
tools.
I’m confident the results you’ll get by following
the “Diverse Method” will be so convincing, that you’ll
agree other philosophies hardly measure up to it. After all, by
being diverse, you arm yourself with the best of ALL methods.
And this versatility is what will make you flawless.
Written by International
Trainer and Dog Psychologist, Kevin "The Dog Prodigy"
We all die. The goal isn't to live forever, the goal is
to create something that will.”
--Chuck Palahniuk

This Book Gives You a Totally
New Perspective About:
1. Yourself - Your thoughts, beliefs and perception
of your current and previous dogs.
2. Your Dog - Why and how your dog thinks and responds in different
scenarios.
3. Your Method – Unravel the strengths and weaknesses of
different techniques.
4. Your Tools – Which training tools work and which eventually
stop working.
5. Your Trainer - Their philosophy, expertise, expectations and
limitations.
6. The Dog Training Industry – How to use the system to
your advantage.
It took ten years of hard work, intense research, and studying
thousands of cases
to write this book.
My Mission:
To Find All the Reasons Why Dogs Didn't Thrive to Their Fullest
Potential.
I was shocked to find that the "real cause" had very
little to do with the dogs' age, breed,
size, intelligence, history, or even personality, but had everything
to do with the
“human element.”
Dog owners and even dog trainers from all around the globe were
skillfully misled, influenced and even brainwashed. Sadly, all
this had a tremendous affect on their beliefs, attitude, technique,
drive, sense of hope, creativity, and of course--their level of
success.
Book's Description:
This book takes a deeper look at modern dog training and canine
psychology while it also introduces you to the next level and
the future of training and canine behavior modification—“The
Diverse Method.”
Think about it. If there are more than four hundred
different breeds of dogs in this world, how can they possibly
all respond to only one way of training? Have you ever considered
that fact? You see, every dog was bred specifically for a purpose.
So for any expert to argue that you can train EACH AND EVERY ONE
with just Positive Reinforcement or Negative Reinforcement show
their arrogance, lack of experience and diversity.
The secret is to follow a "Diverse Reinforcement"
because, just as with humans, dogs don't always respond to a strictly
positive or negative approach. Here's where it gets more interesting.
All dog trainers know this, but don't or can't teach it in their
training method.
!!! Now
Did I Get Your Attention??? !!!
Look, you are definitely NOT going to be safe, smart or successful
if you rely on just one way of training as a crutch. The key to
greatness is to arm yourself with different training techniques
that will prepare you for ANY dog, despite their age, size, strengths,
intelligence, past history or personality. Again, I am talking
about being "Diverse" because no method and no training
tool is guaranteed to work in every situation and on every dog.
That's just a fact!
This is one of those rare books that will make you smile, make
you laugh, make you think and even challenge you to push yourself
far beyond your leash or your bag of treats. It is filled with
life lessons along with my incredible journey with dogs from all
walks of life.
If you are the sensitive type, you may get a few lumps in your
throat. I've spent a decade writing this book, which inspired
me to learn something new from every dog, every owner and every
trainer I've encountered. So, in a way, the book has grown with
me.
My hope is that when you finish it, both you and your dog will
be able to communicate with one another much more effectively.
--Kevin "The Dog Prodigy"
Master Dog Trainer / Author
About the Author:
Kevin Salem is considered to be one of the brightest minds in
the world of dog training. It’s hard to paint Kevin’s
image with the same brush as others, as his unique way of "Diverse
Method" and philosophy, makes him very distinct.
Ever since he was young, Kevin has been able to relate and communicate
with dogs in a very special way. You know when you meet a natural.
We’ve all seen one. These individuals are rarely taught,
but rather born. In over two decades of working with different
breeds, he has successfully trained well over 10,000 dogs worldwide,
earning him the nickname,“The Dog Prodigy.”
He is one of those rare experts in his field who has the knowledge
and the expertise to accept challenging cases that the majority
of dog schools simply don’t want to deal with. We are referring
to “red zone dogs,” and those already given up on
by many trainers, veterinarians and even animal behaviorists.
He is proud of saving hundreds of these dogs from abandonment,
shelters, or worse, euthanasia.
Kevin gained his experience from studying and practicing different
methods of training. To expand his knowledge even further, he
also compared the strengths and weaknesses of different theories
from more than a hundred books on dog training, dog behavior,
and canine psychology.
Mr. Salem currently operates his school, Dog Secrets, where
he offers house calls not only throughout the US, but globally.
You may also send your dog to his most popular program, the Doggie
Boot Camp.
!!!
More Extremely Thought-Provoking Articles
Worth Reading !!!
What Most Trainers Ignore or
Even Hide From You!
Correct Your 10 Worst Mistakes and Get Eyebrow Raising Results!
You'll be shocked to find that even "top trainers"
make some of these mistakes.
What Grade Would
Your Dog Give YOU? (Funny and Eye-Opening)
Don't just prove it to us, prove it to yourself that your dog
sees YOU as the boss.
Why Can't You Get Your Dog to Respond Around "Other"
Dogs?
As soon as your dog spots another dog, he barks, lunges,
growls or... learn why!
Using
Treats? Are You Really Being Rational, Practical and Natural?
Do your yummy treats really stand a chance around dogs, cats and
your visitors!
20 Reasons
Why Your Doesn't Listen When it Matters the MOST!
Easy-to-miss causes of why your dog flat out ignores you around
distractions.
When and Why You Should Doubt Your Technique or Your Trainer!
Seven signs to look for in identifying the strengths & weaknesses
of your method!
Dumb
Trainers - Smart Dogs!!!
Most Dog Schools WILL Fail You!
97% of trainers and dog classes can't deliver real results. How
many will you try?
Inside
the Mind of Veterinarians and Their Staff (Dog Etiquettes!)
All vets and vet techs are dying for you to master these proven
tips. Learn how.
Turning
a Childhood Tragedy into Triumph! - Kevin's Sad Story!!
Everybody has a story, a cause, or a reason of why they do what
they.
Read Kevin's touching and remarkable story.
Have you noticed that the very best things in life are
rarely "things". They are your loved ones, your happiness,
your passion, your health, your attitude, your love, and your
accomplishment.
--Kevin "The Dog Prodigy"
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